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Old 7th November 2009, 5:12 AM   #5
EricaH329
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I hate to say it, but I don't think that telling her anything will make much of a difference. I know that personally, if some girl were to approach me and start rambling about how my boyfriend broke her heart and he said this and that to her, i'd look at her like she's crazy. (Not saying you are crazy).

I don't tend to believe what other people tell me about someone, if I think I have a pretty good idea of who my boyfriend is, they can tell me whatever they would like.

I think it'd do much more harm to yourself. Sure, it might feel good to get it off your chest, but in the end, if she still remains with him... how do you think you are going to feel?? Probably the same, if not worse.

IMO, I wouldn't say anything to her, or him for that matter. Be angry with him, let it ride out, and move on. Easier said than done, it'll take time, probably lots of it... but you'll feel better about yourself if you don't say anything.
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