I'm so sorry, McGrupp! I'm just having fun, trying to entertain you... It's okay if your feeling needy. But if you are going to contact her, at least try not to sound so needy....
im just going to email her what you wrote. **** it
Ok. If your going to email it, it will have to be longer.
Such as:
Dearly Missed Beloved,
Forgive me for contacting you yet again in my sad plight. The misery I find myself in is overwhelming. Everyday the memories haunt me as I consider the foolish part I played in the losing of our romance.
I'm so attracted to you. I'm lost in desperation, pondering the demise of our relationship. I think of you every waking moment in my pathetic little mind that seems to revel in the thought of you alone.
So I have one request to ask of you, patient and gentle darling, I ask you to assist me in this time of need, until I can heal the wounds of our love which hath ended.
If i were you id stop sending emails. You can't make someone come back, even if she comes back she will only patch your wounds for a while. She' ll say sweet things that you will fall for, but the reality is that once that's over she will be back to whom she was. Believe me man don't act so needy, understand that you did all you can and it wasn't meant to be don't beat yourself up it will only drag you into a bigger whole.
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Desperate times call for desperate measures.
Listen man! Freaking wake up! This woman has you wanting to kill yourself. This is as toxic as it gets. Stop contacting her. Why isn't she deleted? What are you doing to yourself and what are you doing to her with the craziness. Let her be. Heal and stop. You must stop your going way down the downward spiral.
McGrupp - when she responding, "You still haven't given me enough time"...for what is she referring to? Enough time to realize her mistake, or enough time to put you behind her?
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It's not stress that kills us, it's our reaction to it!
i dont know. this whole thing was a time thing. we went from kinda weird to me suggesting we have space to me calling her one day maybe a week after that and her ending it. and then me calling again, and again, and again. unfortunately i didnt give her any and she has moved on as far as i can see. she still picks up and enjoys my convo to a point. but she had moved on.
i just cant get it through my head that she has.
maybe like 3 or 4 conversations ago it was well im not sure, now its like have a nice life.
this is why im depressed because i did this. and here we go again.
your heartbroke that's whats wrong but you must be disciplined. you are stronger than this. every time you want to break nc you have to find a way to channel it. block her number, and delete it. google your phone provider and how to block. just breath, your gonna make it through this and be okay.
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