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Originally Posted by laurag

Hi, just having one of my paranoid days, need some perspective in this situation. I'd posted before about my boyfriend wanting to take things slow, so we did for a few days but then decided to go back to the way we were before. So far things have been going pretty good, better than before, but I'm beginning to have doubts. This will probably sound immature, but he used to put little messages for his ex in his messenger nickname, and well, he doesn't do that for me. He did it in the beginning (like the first few days) but then stopped doing it for fear of "scaring me off". I've asked him about it, one time he said he was thinking about writing something special for me again but didn't know what, and the last time he didn't answer, just said something about that relationship being over (I did mention the girl's name heh).

Does this mean he doesn't love me? He says he does, but why won't he do those things for me too?? Thanks for any replies.

His ex probably got bored of him by him revealing he liked her and dumped him. He's probably learned his lesson and knows to not show much interest if he wants to keep a woman interested in him.