[onewillburn]

Originally Posted by jlr

The dumpers can have alot of anger. My ex does. She told me she doesn't love herself. She says she's a mess. She's visibly confused about everything. She isn't sure she made the right choice, but her pride prevents her from doing anything about it. So now it eats away at her. And sometimes, she'll try to blame me, as if it's MY fault she dumped me. There was a time when I let her do this. Not anymore. She broke MY heart, and now she has to deal with all these feelings she has about it.

Maybe if the dumper was happy with their decision they might not show anger, but in a lot of situations, they still question their choice.

Yeah, definitely. The thing is, I broke up with her before she ever broke up with me and I think she was/is bitter about it, among other things. Though, in the end she's the one who dumped me and that's what matters most. Also, she knows I've been with other girls/have gotten in much better shape, etc. Our relationship kind of always leaned in my favor and she always said she felt like such a small thing next to me and I think it led to a certain kind of bitterness towards me. I don't know, it really doesn't matter. I saw something I shouldn't have. Whatever, time to keep moving on.

I want to make it clear that I don't have any hope of us getting back together (other than the small little hope we all have that doesn't seem to fully go away) and this post was kind of a fluke. I don't care about it or her at this point. I just reacted off of my gut when I saw something on her page on little sleep. I honestly don't care about it anymore.