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Originally Posted by canadaguy98
I dont think that it's quite that bad. I mostly want to make sure I dont dig myself into a corner; and hence pull apart more grilled cheese sandwiches.
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You end up with wackos because you refuse to take heed of all the wacko signs, signals, bells, and flashing red lights that are right there in your face.
This girl is clearly bad news, will only get worse, and yet you continue to stay.
It's on you, now. You can't blame her when you feel like a cornered rat at some point down the road. You have decided to stay in this and let it get worse.
Take responsibility for
your choices - don't blame her. She is what she is, and she's been very clear about it. There's no surprise here, no subterfuge, no bait and switch. Don't bitch about it later when you can't handle it anymore, and don't blame her for it. Blame yourself for deliberately choosing to stay with her when all the signs were there that this is a disaster.