[SValentine]

My ex and i fought and fell out for about 7 months. This happened when we were close friends after our breakup. But recently she contacted me and we became friends again, though not as close as before. The only thing that stands in the way of our friendship is her new boyfriend whom she has been with for about 8 months now.

Well recently, i bumped into her and her bf at the bus stop near my place when we were boarding the same bus. I didn't notice her at first but when i looked up i saw her staring intently at me. I just gave her a smile and boarded the bus. The next day we talk on msn and she tells me that she had a very strong feeling she was going to bump into me and that she even prepared what to do if she sees me. She starts talking about past funny memories we used to share and asked me out for a movie. She even refused to go offline until i did.

I am so confused by her behaviour. I mean... you have a boyfriend don't you? But honestly speaking, she was the hardest person to get over in my life. Even now i still have a soft spot for her and my heart beats out of control whenever i see her, which is not very often at all. I don't know what to do. Someone guide me :/

[Perhaps]

Hey, just noticed your post; thought I'd pitch in my own 2 cents..

I think you should talk to her IF you have a soft spot for her but definitely keep your walls up. Don't be overavailable. Show her your life is fun without her. But see how it goes.

I must warn you, though. Sometimes, girls just do that because they're seeking attention. Give them what they want and given your position, it could blow up in your face and you don't want that. So, go ahead with it but be very careful and keep your distance for now.

Good luck!

[Weezy]

Originally Posted by SValentine

My ex and i fought and fell out for about 7 months. This happened when we were close friends after our breakup. But recently she contacted me and we became friends again, though not as close as before. The only thing that stands in the way of our friendship is her new boyfriend whom she has been with for about 8 months now.

Well recently, i bumped into her and her bf at the bus stop near my place when we were boarding the same bus. I didn't notice her at first but when i looked up i saw her staring intently at me. I just gave her a smile and boarded the bus. The next day we talk on msn and she tells me that she had a very strong feeling she was going to bump into me and that she even prepared what to do if she sees me. She starts talking about past funny memories we used to share and asked me out for a movie. She even refused to go offline until i did.

I am so confused by her behaviour. I mean... you have a boyfriend don't you? But honestly speaking, she was the hardest person to get over in my life. Even now i still have a soft spot for her and my heart beats out of control whenever i see her, which is not very often at all. I don't know what to do. Someone guide me :/

Just stick to NC... She has a boyfriend, once she figures out she can get you back she will lose all interest, which you will realize in the end and it will hurt more.

I've been in your spot, for your own sake, DO NOT CHASE!!!!