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Originally Posted by mybrowneyedgirl
what you havent noticed is that im not on here "wishing" he would call or waiting for a response to an email or tex that ive sent. im not contacting him, not planning ways to win his heart. im not wanting him back. im wanting to come to terms with the fact that ive f***** everything up for a lie.
as far as my kids. absolutely not. no way im going to miss out on their lives and hire a babysitter to take them to soccer or school functions or anything. they are my children, with or without the affair. and hes not stopping being there for his children. i refuse to let what ive done change my involvement in my kids lives for even one second.
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You make a good point. This whole thing is really fresh and new to you, and I really don't expect you to just flip a switch and be over it.
I think you should sit down and really put some thought into why you chased that lie so hard. What made you want that?
In light of your current situation. What do you intend to do?
See, I'm not really convinced that you are in love with your husband. It doesn't make sense for you to pull out all the stops and do whatever is necessary just to keep someone you are not in love with.
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