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Old 4th November 2009, 5:49 PM   #1
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It's over for me.

I'm moving on. I haven't contacted him. I deleted his phone number, email address and all the texting messages.

I deserve better than him. He even suggested I should meet someone else. He said he didn't want to hurt me, and I won't allow him to.

It's done. No more contact.
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Old 6th November 2009, 4:31 PM   #2
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Empathy

Just because we have empathy, doesn't mean other people are entitled to it.

Making out on a park bench with a married man - bad.

Good choice dumping him. Don't weaken.

There is nothing to build upon with him. He doesn't have good values.
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Old 7th November 2009, 1:11 AM   #3
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Just because we have empathy, doesn't mean other people are entitled to it.

Making out on a park bench with a married man - bad.

Good choice dumping him. Don't weaken.

There is nothing to build upon with him. He doesn't have good values.
Well, he wasn't originally interested in getting empathy from me. He never told me that he was married. He only said he had an ex and two kids.
He wanted to figure things out with his ex and he wanted a relationship with me. Of course, he was lying.
He wanted to woo me to bed based on all the sexual innuendo. I told him if he wanted to have fun with me that he could look elsewhere. Later on, he said he won't pressure me, and I believed him. In a moment of weakness, I gave in to my desires for him and we made out twice.
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