Well put!
To the OP, it would be a pretty cold and unfeeling world (more so than it already is) if we just acted like we didn't care after we get our hearts broken, pretended it didn't hurt and then quickly moved onto the next relationship or one night stand or whatever.
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Originally Posted by Cranialrupture
I am in one of the anger swings of my rollercoaster. So I apologize if this comes across strong. I am only starting the 5th week since my stbxw left. If only 3 months is all it took. When and if you ever get to the point in your life where you are at perfect peace and happiness with your wife, to the point where you could die on the spot a happy man because you know that you love and are believed to be loved to a level that everything else in life is completely irrelevant and that you have no fear of the future because you have grown a love so strong that you know you can overcome anything because she is by your side. Then have everything torn away from you in an instant as if it didn't mean one f**king thing, and watch the pain and the hurt and the fear in your three kids's eyes which are a down pour of tears and they are shakeing from grief and confussion and she just sits there as if it doesn't even phase her. Then you can come and ask why everyone is so depressed. The answer is you have most likely never given everything and I mean everything to a relationship and built your life around a person and kids just to have it all destroyed.
Sorry for the rant...I am just in an anger phase atm.
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