It's pretty clear that your M is over. She's living with the OM. My gut feeling is that the only reason she's taking your calls, going to dinner, and hasn't filed for divorce is that she is in her own twisted way trying to let you down easy and assuage her guilt. The divorce papers will come though. You're doing all the running after her, and she's not approaching you at all. Actions are speaking loudly here.
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