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Old 3rd November 2009, 11:56 PM   #16
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Just Talk to him? the world series are going on ask him who he likes in the series and go from there. be flirty and he will know your into him because most girls dont do baseball.
if that dont work flash your tits that will get his attention. seriously just talk to him about baseball guys love it when girls ask about sports.
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Old 4th November 2009, 2:01 AM   #17
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Well it depends on how i dress. I say when i don't do anything im average like 5 or 6. When i dress up a little im a 7 and when i really dress up im a 9. So i am 6.8 on a scale of 1-10.
BS. No one goes from 5 to 9 by simply dressing better. Get real.
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Old 4th November 2009, 12:15 PM   #18
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Just Talk to him? the world series are going on ask him who he likes in the series and go from there. be flirty and he will know your into him because most girls dont do baseball.
if that dont work flash your tits that will get his attention. seriously just talk to him about baseball guys love it when girls ask about sports.
Unless of course the guy doesn't care about baseball...
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Old 4th November 2009, 1:24 PM   #19
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Just talk to him!!

I wish a girl would come up and talk to me that wasn't my friend but it has never happened in my lifetime and i dont expect it to. If girls tried a little more when it comes to chasing a guy..there would be sooo many happy people out there.

Why are you so into him if you don't mind me asking.
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Old 9th November 2009, 2:42 PM   #20
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Well he's really cute. I know that sounds shallow, but i also like the way he dresses and his voice and i just want to get to know him better and see if maybe we could at least be friends. He has a nice smile too. We are in a music class together, so i know he loves music just like me.
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Old 11th November 2009, 3:27 PM   #21
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Just Talk to him? the world series are going on ask him who he likes in the series and go from there. be flirty and he will know your into him because most girls dont do baseball.
if that dont work flash your tits that will get his attention. seriously just talk to him about baseball guys love it when girls ask about sports.
Agree with the other reply.. I personally don't give a crap about baseball if a girl came up to me starting to talk about baseball.. I'd give her a blank look.. I couldn't even name any members of any of our big city sports teams cause I just don;'t care about sports or baseball. She has to tailor it to the individual..
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Old 18th November 2009, 12:23 AM   #22
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Just talk to him hon. About anything

And dont be ashamed to tell him you find him attractive.

Fear of rejection is an empty fear. And telling sopme guy you think hes atractive isnt like offering to have sex with him in the janitors closet.

Truthfully most of the girls Ive dated have approached me. Not that I dont approach women, butr the better catches always seem to pursue you
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Old Yesterday, 12:05 PM   #23
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If you're shy start practicing talking to strangers, everyday do it at least once, anytime you're standing in line for anything make a comment to the person next to you about anything, the weather, sports, what they are wearing or a book they have in their hand, anything....

Tell someone that you like something they are wearing, the point is that just like anything else you have to practice doing it when it doesn't matter so you'll feel more comfortable doing it when it does matter to you. You'll also find that most people are pretty nice and you'll start to lose your fear of talking to complete strangers.
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