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LOST: yes real love exists, but it's not something that usually comes without a lot of work. Unconditional love is actually real love. If you look at how a mother animal would softly care for her pup, or how the sun shines on your face, or look at how an elderly man would take care of his aging sick wife, all of these are examples of "real" love.
Intimate, romantic love is a whole other ballgame. The dynamic and emotions that come along with romantic love make unconditional love harder to grasp.
If someone is cheating on you, it's about them and how they feel about themselves. People who cheat lack ANY self love or self resepct. But that is their path and what they need at the time to get through the day. It can also lead them on their path to becoming spiritually sound.
Focus on love for yourself, love for your family and friends and when you become more aware of what "real love" is, then you will attract men who have the same self awareness.
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Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom. ~Thomas Jefferson
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