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Second Chances Called it off but doubting the decision now? Someone wants you back? Let us know about it!

Old 4th November 2009, 3:57 AM   #1
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Just recently broke up with my girlfriend. She told me she wants to be single and is very confused with her life right now and needs some space. The relationship ended because of my mistakes, my lies and my stupidity. We went out for 2 years and six months and were very much in love talking everyday about everything. I have never had such deep conversations in my life. I know things about this girl that no one not even her parents know. She told me there was a good chance that we could get back together with some time but i dont know if i should believe her or just move the **** on. I do want her back so bad
Anyone who tells you they "need some space" is usually ending the relationship. Often, they already have someone new waiting in the wings to fill the space you just vacated. This may or may not be true in your case.

However, getting back together rarely lasts, and the second attempt usually involves much more hurt and heartache than the first time around. Unless your situation with this woman has changed in some deep, fundamental way, I would not open myself up for more pain.
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