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Old 3rd November 2009, 6:47 PM   #7
doomage
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It's basically over

I know i should let go and just stop making an effort to become her friend again, but i keep feeling like there is hope somehow someway. But the thing is i wonder if she is passive aggressive or something. Once before when we were good friends i told her i was going to give her a ride to work but i didn't have the car available my mom had it, but i thought she would get back early.My mom called and said she wasn't gonna come home any time soon so i had to call my friend and tell her i wasn't going to be able to take her to work, this is how the convo went on the phone:

Me:hey i'm not gonna be able to take you to work, im really sorry.
her:so your saying i'm gonna be late to work? man now i have to take the bus and i'm gonna be like an hour late.
Me:i know im really sorry its because my mom took the car today and.....
Her:click.

And she hung up then i was kissing ass all day texting her that i would be able to pick her up and she said "no thanks, im good" and i kept texting and saying i was sorry and to not be mad at me.
and she ignored me for like two days.
I went to go wash my car the second day and told her a funny story how once i finished washing my car it started raining so now i have to wash it again and she replied saying "don't talk to me like nothing is wrong"

and i kept begging saying that if we could talk and the next day she texted me and said "if you want you can pick me up at 10 and we can talk after i get out of work" and then everything went back to normal.

but this time she ended the friendship and she ignores my texts, my calls, acts like im non existent when i see her at school. she deleted me off her myspace way before we stopped being friends, cuz she said i was annoying.
and on sunday i found out she deleted her myspace profile.

i just want to convince her to give me a second chance.if i do no contact how will the friendship stand a chance of rekindling?should i try to talk to her still or what?
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