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Old 28th September 2009, 2:44 PM   #16
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Been like what now 3 years since this incidence LOL, yea I'm 22 now....... Funny but if I was single I would be doing this like every day or like 3 times a week or so. Man ever since that, I can't stop this fantasy/online craving from my thoughts. Guess it's something that has no stop to it. Or did I always have a wild side?? It possible I had this repressed and when I did that once long time ago as single, it just brought up whatever was repressed???
I don't know the answer to your questions, but for what it's worth I would have taken the webcam away from you too.
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Old 28th September 2009, 2:50 PM   #17
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I don't know the answer to your questions, but for what it's worth I would have taken the webcam away from you too.
I have a new webcam now, like I stated been now 3 years later. The main reason I don't flash on cam now is because I'm in a relationship plus I still live with them. I'm about to move out sometime beginning of next year or this ending year as I will be paying for my boarding pass to go back to the US.

This was just an update of my 2006 post. Interesting how curiousity turn into thought fantasy/craving that doesn't go away.

No I never apologize as I felt no need to. I felt within myself I just done nothing wrong but just act it out on myself plus I hate doing fake apologies..... If I apologize, then it's when I mean it not just to save my behind...
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Old 28th September 2009, 11:21 PM   #18
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nature is such that one is either a voyeur or an exhibitionist. One compliments the other. The difference is, mature adults are mature ENOUGH to keep it amongst the intimate levels and not expose it to the public. Sorry but bragging online is not the most mature thing to do.

Some words of wisdom....Never do online, in public or in text anything that can be published against you. Your neighbors, your heirs may sometime read it or view it. Is it worth the shame? If you carry no shame, you carry no humaness. You decide.
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Old 29th September 2009, 4:40 PM   #19
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This is a sad story. If I had a daughter I would hate to think she was flashing her tits on the internet. It wouldn't matter if she was 19 or 29. I would feel that I was a terrible failure as a father for raising a girl who had such a poor opinion of herself that she had to seek justification by prostituting herself online.
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Old 7th October 2009, 4:01 AM   #20
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I understand your frustration but at the same time looking at it from his perspective , i KNOW he feels horrible. His little girl is showing boobs to other guys on the internet.. I know you say you are 19 or whatever but you are still his little girl and he knows how guys are because he has been one all his life.

On another note, is it ok to show your boobs to random guys on the internet.. IMO heck NO. You seem like a good girl , you say you are a virgin yet you show your boobs to random guys on the internet. I honestly dont see why and IMO that is not proper especially looking at it from your parents perspective. I am 22 yo but if i had a doughter and found out she was flashing guy on the internet, i know that would kill me. I would feel like i failed as a parent.

If it was your bf and he saw your boobs than fine but strangers on the internet...cmon!

oh crap didnt realize this was like a 3 yr old post.

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Old 7th October 2009, 9:38 AM   #21
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This is a sad story. If I had a daughter I would hate to think she was flashing her tits on the internet. It wouldn't matter if she was 19 or 29. I would feel that I was a terrible failure as a father for raising a girl who had such a poor opinion of herself that she had to seek justification by prostituting herself online.
But do you look at porn?
They're all somebody's daughter.
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Old 23rd October 2009, 12:48 AM   #22
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But do you look at porn?
They're all somebody's daughter.
Yes and someones fantasy. No harm in keeping fantasy just that.
This Flasher took it to a sick perversion level that has been an obsession.
What ire's my conscious is the fact this person brags and has no regard for their own actions or family opinions. This person has NO remorse, which is a sign of a socio....totaly egoistic....the Look at me syndrome ....
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Old 23rd October 2009, 3:51 AM   #23
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Been like what now 3 years since this incidence LOL, yea I'm 22 now....... Funny but if I was single I would be doing this like every day or like 3 times a week or so. Man ever since that, I can't stop this fantasy/online craving from my thoughts. Guess it's something that has no stop to it. Or did I always have a wild side?? It possible I had this repressed and when I did that once long time ago as single, it just brought up whatever was repressed???
Not trying to be harsh on you, but what your not getting is that for those techincally savey enough? There are ways to track you down via your computer connection. With that? They can go even further and find out personal information. From that they can find out where you live. On the internet and via your computer you leave a trail. A trail that can be followed to where you live.

With certain internet sites, I can find out what kind of car you drive, where you live, how much you paid for your house, where you work at, what your occupation is etc. All for just $24.95 a month.

It really doesn't take all that much ~ just a Google or Bing Search and a lot of time, patience and determination.

There are a lot of sick puppies out there ~ and one can never be too careful.

You see it as an innocent act of youth. I understand that. But you can never be to careful. Those that you trust (mostly outside of your family ~ but even then some within your family) you can't trust.

But one thing is for sure and certain?

You can't trust people who are strangers.
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Old 15th November 2009, 5:57 PM   #24
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Isn't it possible you just like the attention? Why else would you get a thrill out of a bunch of anonymous strangers seeing you in that way? And your posting the story about it for public consumption fits that theory.

In any case, you're making all the guys around here worry that if they ever have a child it may be a girl.
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Old 15th November 2009, 9:09 PM   #25
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This Flasher took it to a sick perversion level that has been an obsession.
What ire's my conscious is the fact this person brags and has no regard for their own actions or family opinions. This person has NO remorse, which is a sign of a socio....totaly egoistic....the Look at me syndrome ....
Well excuse me, are you calling me a sociopath? Because I can guaranteed you, I'm not. Just because I used to like flashing and would still do it if I was living alone and was not into a relationship doesn't make me emotionless...
Do you even know what a sociopath is??? And no I have never hurt animals for your information nor gotten jail time....
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Old 15th November 2009, 9:12 PM   #26
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There are a lot of sick puppies out there ~ and one can never be too careful.
You can't trust people who are strangers.
Yes you're right about that. Next time if I were to do it (me living alone with either no boyfriend or in an open relationship) then I would off course be more careful about it..
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Old 15th November 2009, 9:16 PM   #27
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Isn't it possible you just like the attention?
Yes can be the reason to it. I do like the visuals but I guess many are still old fashioned about it, thinking a woman never will get turned on seeing it or flashing. Not my fault I was somehow turned on.

Why should I carry extreme remorse for my own fantasies, the fact that I was just turned on by it and well should have been more careful when doing it?? Many people cyber anyways....
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Old 15th November 2009, 9:49 PM   #28
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well im kinda mad at my father to.
hes be in brazil for 7 mounths now and i really misss he i talk on the phone with him but i dont like that i really want him to came back but he say he dosent want to wast his oney cus you just invesed him money and he prosend me that he was going to come but he dident and i really want to see him its vary hard what im am going throw now. he told me to move with him but i dont want to i like my life right now and i dont want to leave it right now and my mom want to move there to but me and my sister dont. im telling them everyhtink but they dont get it. sooo you im really mad and sad now
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Old 15th November 2009, 10:11 PM   #29
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This is a sad story. If I had a daughter I would hate to think she was flashing her tits on the internet. It wouldn't matter if she was 19 or 29. I would feel that I was a terrible failure as a father for raising a girl who had such a poor opinion of herself that she had to seek justification by prostituting herself online.
I'm with you Quinch. Regardless of what xoxo says, I can understand her fathers position.
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