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Old 7th December 2005, 11:01 PM   #1
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Ever get revenge on ex?

I broke up with one GF. She did the breaking up twice and came back. I handled it calmly, politely.

The 3rd time she did it, I agreed that we each weren't prepared to change our ways. She got mad at the concept that anyone (her) had to change except GP. She got real nasty. I remained calm.

A few weeks later I complained (anonymously) that her kid was home alone in the morning. (she started work a 6:30, school opened at 8)
Cops checked it out and put a social worker on her tail.
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Old 7th December 2005, 11:51 PM   #2
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Messing with a child in order to get back at the ex? that's pretty low dude. Social services is no joking matter. It would be one thing if you did something trivial, but this is another life, one that isn't yours or hers, that you're f'ing with.

For shame. Really.

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Old 8th December 2005, 12:03 AM   #3
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Old 8th December 2005, 12:23 AM   #4
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thats a horrible thing to do.
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Old 8th December 2005, 12:46 AM   #5
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Revenge to her is one thing (although I don't see how any was justified) but revenge to a kid is another. The kid didn't do anything to you. You're not just jeapardizing her losing her kid, you're jeapardizing the kid losing his parent.
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Old 8th December 2005, 2:16 AM   #6
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They wouldn't have a case against her if what she was doing was OK.
The kid might be better off
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Old 8th December 2005, 11:03 AM   #7
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They wouldn't have a case against her if what she was doing was OK.
The kid might be better off

Social services makes cases based on very little or nothing all of the ime.Do you really honestly belive the child would be better off if taken away from it's mother and bounced year after year from foster home to foster home?
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Old 8th December 2005, 1:01 PM   #8
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Depends

How old was the kid. A young kid even say 8 or 9 probably shouldn't be left alone like that everyday. Probably not right to seek revenge, besides living well and being happy is always the best revenge.
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