Should I still Give ex Christmas Present Even if she has given me a sign about us?

jordkorn · 20th November 2005, 8:26 PM

My girlfreind and I have been seperated for a month now. I recently made a poster with our pictures on it to show her what she means to me. She also told me there was no romance so I made some cds with love songs to show her what I am thinking. She still sends me e-mails but has not shown anything for us. I want to show her what she means to me. I am not sure what she thinks of me but I want to tell her that I have changed my ways on things. What should I do?

Art_Critic · 20th November 2005, 8:29 PM

I would like a little more info if I may..
Thanks

How old are you two ?

westernxer · 20th November 2005, 8:30 PM

Why did she break up with you?

jordkorn · 20th November 2005, 8:41 PM

I am 20 and she is 24. She broke up with me because she said there was not enough romance and that she was not happy for a long time and we did not have the best communication so I went out and bought a vacation for 2 days to try and figure things out. We never got to go because she broke up with me before we could go. I also bought an engagement ring and I was going to propose near Christmas. I love her dearly and I want it to work but she has not given me any signs. I need some advice. Thanks of the advice it means alot to me.

Selections1 · 20th November 2005, 8:46 PM

does she know about the ring?

Art_Critic · 20th November 2005, 8:50 PM

You don't need to be making her any posters declaring your love..
Or cds.. you will push her further away with kind of stuff..
That stuff is for teenagers.

What you need to do is give her time and see if she will give it a go a second time..
But you need to back away from her some.. Give her time..
If you smother her with any declartions of love she will run like the wind..

symbol · 20th November 2005, 8:56 PM

[QUOTE=Art_Critic]
That stuff is for teenagers.
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I definitely do not agree with that!

From what you say, she is a romantic person, I think she would like the poster and cds if she still has feelings for you.

We need more info though. Was it an ugly break up? Is she dating someone else? What does she say when she contacts you? etc.

jordkorn · 20th November 2005, 8:56 PM

I showed her the ring one day when she came over to drop things off. We lived together for almost 9 months. I don't want to annoy her in any way I am just afraid that she will forget about me and find someone else. I am done school in April and will be moving back home and she will be 2 hours away form me so I want to know now what she thinks.
We talked all the time about our future and marriage before so thats why I don't want to lose her