[gunit]

I met this girl about 4 years older than me since she's on a vacation in California from Sweden. My parents have known their parents before i was born so she visited my house and planned to go to Disneyland with me. I went with her to Disneyland and we were just talking and having fun going to rides, but at night she started acting different and started holding my hand and rubbing it. I began to think she liked me since she wanted hang out with me more.

But somehow she had overheard that i had a crush on her, but i denied and said i like her as a friend and she said she felt the same. So then i thought she wasn't interested in me. We went to the movies as friends and something else happened. She brought her head against mine for a short while and backed away. By this point I'm in confusion and don't know if she likes me as a friend, or if its more. She's also very shy.

[Samantha2005]

You told her you like her just as a friend. So what else is she going to say except that she feels the same way too? If you like her, then give the "friendship" discussions a rest. Seems she may like you for more than just a friend.

[gunit]

Ya thats what i thought too. Cause she also teases me and enjoys hanging out with me. It could be that she is friendly and that shes trying to have fun, but i have never seen this type of behavior from a girl to me. Thanks for your advice.

[Samantha2005]

Just follow your instincts and let us know how it goes.

[gunit]

Now she has found out i really like her because my family members around me have teased me about it. I have a good feeling she knows i like her, but im not sure if she feels the same about me. But even after she found out, shes been acting the same, and actually interested in hanging out with me. We went to Las Vegas and other small places. When we have been alone, we dont hold hands or anything, but we talk alot and i think she feels comfortable being with me. I heard from one of my cousins that she has wanted to revisit me a couple times before leaving to Europe.

I have a good feeling she likes me but im not 100% sure. She doesnt tell anybody her true feelings and i think shes waiting for me to show it first. She will be gone around the middle of this week but she will be back next summer to visit california. I will be talking to her on instant messaging. If you can please tell me by the sound of it if she does have feelings for me. Thank you.

[gunit]

u know its funny how as we humans grow, we experience and learn to familiarize ourselves with certain situations. I have definitely learned from this past experience that women are unpredictable and if they really like you, they will be begging on their knees through simple animal signs. Im sick of rejections, but the time will come when i reject those bitches. No one can help so why bother. This girl has not come back from sweden and therefore, i conclude that she is screwin around wit other men while i sit my ass at home crying my days away. I realized that i should not live based on the past. im movin on and so should any male who gets hurt by those WHORES. peace out.