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Friends and Lovers Progressing into "Friends with benefits" and beyond: When platonic relationships become more intimate.

Old 20th January 2005, 12:26 AM   #1
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I want to be more than friends, long distance....

Hey all, new to the board here....maybe I can get some advice....

I met a girl at school in September and we've become very good friends. Since the moment I first met her, I was immediately attracted to her. She's all I look for in a girl, and then some, beautiful, funny, sincere, kind, intelligent, the list goes on and on.

We constantly flirt, and she always compliments me, and I her. I want to take it to the next level, but, she has just gone into a study abroad program, and just left yesterday for 4 months. Needless to say, I'm sincerely missing her already.

I envision it being very hard to start a relationship long distance. So I guess right now, my main priority is just to keep her interested, but without being too forward? What should I do?! I don't know anymore, I'm just really frustrated and can take any advice I can get. Thanks in advance....
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Old 20th January 2005, 12:54 PM   #2
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Can you talk to her online? Possibley communicate as often as possible? I deff don't reccomend trying to start a relationship until she gets home...honestly she is studying abroad so she may meet people who interest her (over there) so trying to begin something now may only lead the relationship to fail.


I think keeping in contact (as friends) is a good idea then once she's back home maybe ask her out on a date? (sorry this is the best I could right now)
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