[vhshowdown]

I need help please. I am going crazy. I have liked this woman for about 2 months now. First time we went out together, I asked if she were single, and she said was married, but not much of a relationship and she would be moving out. Well, she just moved out at beginning of August. Well since the first time we ever met, we have only been out on 3 dates. The last time got very heated, and she said she couldnt come over to my house, which is fine. But my problem is I want to get a little closer, but there are times where we wont talk at all for days or weeks at a time.

Do I hang on just knowing I am no where near top priority on her list?!?!!?!! Let her control when we talk, etc....
Or my feelings are right now, she is seeing someone else other than me....
Which is fine with me, but why wouldnt she just come out and say it?!?!?!
Which I really never came out and asked her if she was seeing other people, do I ask her what is up??!!??!!

Has anyone out there been thru this same situation??

Please advise!!!!

[littleflowerpot]

when someone is in the middle of a divorce, maybe a new romantic partner shouldn't be their top priority. that doesn't mean you don't factor in at all. maybe she needs to work through some heavy emotional stuff right now.

however, that doesn't mean you should wait around for someone else to control your relationships (even if they are part of that relationship). it seems maybe she isn't intentionally trying to make you feel unimportant but she might not be the right person for you RIGHT NOW.

btw, i love your avatar.

[vhshowdown]

LFP, thanks for the advice. I think you are right. I am thinking I need to move on right now. Maybe eventually we can pick it back up, but right now, I am looking more for a relationship that can grow, instead of one that cant go anywhere right now.

I have all the luck in relationships, but this was my fault from the start, I asked and knew, and still pursued it. Oh well

You like the avatar, thanks, ya he is pretty cool. He can put anyone in a good mood.
LOL

[littleflowerpot]

it's the cutest thing i've seen all day!