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Old 1st June 2009, 7:58 PM   #1
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Dealing with insecurity.

I'm not insecure about my looks...well, it's not the central thing I'm insecure about.

I'm very insecure about the impression I make on people and what they think of me. I think about how this one girl won't call me back and then I remember every girl or friend that ever did that to me. It's really a vicious circle. I just get down on myself, and I really struggle to get out of it sometimes.

Does anyone have any experience with this? I'd appreciate any words of wisdom. Thanks.
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Old 3rd June 2009, 5:32 PM   #2
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What are you insecure about? Let the past go .. be open and friendly and happy .. you'll draw people to you.
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Old 4th June 2009, 3:01 AM   #3
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How old are you? My quick reaction is you'll grow out of this feeling.
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Old 7th June 2009, 7:35 PM   #4
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Iam shy but I get over it when needed. Sometimes. What are you insecure about?
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Old 27th June 2009, 11:10 AM   #5
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just don't dwell on whatever has happened in the past, its done with. Each day is a new beginning my friend, you've gotta make the most of it!

My ex was insecure (even tho I thought she was the most beautiful, sexy girl I'd ever seen). That eventually drove me away...
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