TheFaithfulWife Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Having been the The Faithful Wife of a cheating husband, I can only say Do Not get involved with a man until his first relationship is over. If he refuses to divorce his wife, then have some self respect and move on. The only time I have felt an affair might be justified is when the persons spouse is too ill to sustain a relationship (Comatose or a long term illness where the spouse is dying and has hung on even when not aware of surroundings) I am back with my husband, but the damage he has done to his respect from our five sons may never be the same. The FaithfulWife Link to post Share on other sites
Benedict Posted January 25, 2004 Share Posted January 25, 2004 Yeah, I'm with you... My kids didn't find out, thank God. And we are mostly past it, but it still crops up in my mind. I do not know the details like when it started, or when it ended - didn't ask, didn't want to know. All I wanted to know was if it was done. We dealt with it last May, and are doing very well, I think. But sometimes I think the hurt will never go completely away... Link to post Share on other sites
Author TheFaithfulWife Posted January 25, 2004 Author Share Posted January 25, 2004 Benedict, I am in same position at the moment, back with husband. His affair was discovered in November and ended in January. He moved out for 6 months and is now back, but the hurt is still fresh and the ability to trust him is starting to return. Good luck to you The faithfulwife Link to post Share on other sites
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