Lizzie60 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 My young lover came over yesterday morning... to clean my driveway... then we had another snowstorm last night.. he came back around noon today... he cleaned it again.. and shovelled my sidewalk and my porch... he even socialized with my neighbour.. they talked outside for a little while... lol He stayed for a few hours... no sex.. just cuddling and kissing... gosh he's sweet... We talked a lot about his gf and my ex... he told me that his gf is bi ... but she won't have him around when she has her little 'escapades" he said she's waaayyy too jealous. We also talked about his future with his gf... he said unless I dump him... he has no intention to stop seeing me... he admitted that he is addicted and will never stop cheating. In a way I feel sorry for her because she probably knows it too... and every time she catches him, she thinks it's the last time... and that he will stop... she loves him too much to leave him... and on the other hand... I think she's dumb to let him get away with it.... I know that if it's not me, it will be someone else... I guess some men, no matter what, just can't stay faithful... Link to post Share on other sites
smileysmile Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 lol OMG I read some threads on here. I have heard from tonnes of women who know the OM is M or had a g/f. YET they still go there. Women lead many men on even when they know they are M or have a g/f Are you one of these women? If not how come you doing this? I am so confused. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted December 29, 2007 Author Share Posted December 29, 2007 lol OMG I read some threads on here. I have heard from tonnes of women who know the OM is M or had a g/f. YET they still go there. Women lead many men on even when they know they are M or have a g/f Are you one of these women? If not how come you doing this? I am so confused. Women lead men!!! I don't think so.. I am single, he's in a relationship.. that's not MY problem it's his. I didn't force him... he came on his own will... Link to post Share on other sites
Julie89 Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 ugh, rudeness... Aww that was a nice thing to do, and i love the "socializing with your neighbour" thing. Unleast he's honest with you and talks to you about his gf:) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted December 29, 2007 Author Share Posted December 29, 2007 ugh, rudeness... Aww that was a nice thing to do, and i love the "socializing with your neighbour" thing. Unleast he's honest with you and talks to you about his gf:) LOL.. yes he is... he has no reasons to lie to me... we are very honest with each other... and sometimes 'too' honest... he makes me smile... Yes... socializing with my neighbour... that was sooo funny... especially after we just talked about him (my neighbour). I chatted with my neighbour last night for about 1/2 hour... he came back about 10 minutes later with a bottle of wine and a nice card... from him and his wife. They are the only people I talk to in my neighbourhood... Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 Wow, all this twisted sex stuff... You really are on a rampage, Lizzie. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted December 29, 2007 Author Share Posted December 29, 2007 Twisted sex stuff... humm... strange. I have been seeing this young guy for over 2 years now... He likes me a lot and I like him a lot. Nothing happened with this neighbour... but I'm sure if I would make a pass at him... he would go for it... I am positive about that... but he's a young doctor, a new father (his daughter is 9 mo)... and his wife is very sweet... I like her so I won't mess with her husband... Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted December 29, 2007 Share Posted December 29, 2007 Twisted sex stuff... humm... strange. I have been seeing this young guy for over 2 years now... He likes me a lot and I like him a lot. Nothing happened with this neighbour... but I'm sure if I would make a pass at him... he would go for it... I am positive about that... but he's a young doctor, a new father (his daughter is 9 mo)... and his wife is very sweet... I like her so I won't mess with her husband... No no no -- I'm talking about your lover and his "bi" GF. I find it ironic that he is apparently getting a thrill out of cheating... and all the while his GF is also cheating with her "escapades." Even more ironic that she's jealous of his "escapades" ... That's what I mean by twisted sex stuff. Hard to keep all those dots connected. :D Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted December 30, 2007 Author Share Posted December 30, 2007 No no no -- I'm talking about your lover and his "bi" GF. I find it ironic that he is apparently getting a thrill out of cheating... and all the while his GF is also cheating with her "escapades." Even more ironic that she's jealous of his "escapades" ... That's what I mean by twisted sex stuff. Hard to keep all those dots connected. :D yeah... but he's OK with her having sex once in a while with some friends... apparently she loves girls... LOL He said he would love to watch or have a 3-4 some with her and the girls... but she's waaayyy too jealous... I don't consider her bi stuff to be cheating though. Link to post Share on other sites
mopar crazy Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 yeah... but he's OK with her having sex once in a while with some friends... apparently she loves girls... LOL He said he would love to watch or have a 3-4 some with her and the girls... but she's waaayyy too jealous... I don't consider her bi stuff to be cheating though. She is cheating. She is going to another person to get her sexual needs met. It doesn't matter if it's another woman or not, she is cheating. This is some weird, twisted stuff! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted December 30, 2007 Author Share Posted December 30, 2007 She is cheating. She is going to another person to get her sexual needs met. It doesn't matter if it's another woman or not, she is cheating. This is some weird, twisted stuff! Good... so if she's cheating.. nothing wrong with him cheating on her.. Thanks... I feel better now.. Link to post Share on other sites
mopar crazy Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 (edited) Good... so if she's cheating.. nothing wrong with him cheating on her.. Thanks... I feel better now.. LOL! Well, I don't know if you should feel better about it. I can't sit here and lecture on how wrong you are Lizzie for screwing some one's BF because I did the same thing years ago. However, it's the MM that you are screwing I will lecture you about, lol! However, it doesn't make it right for him to cheat because she does. I guess he just doesn't give a ***** because he figures it's with women and not men. Like I said, twisted. Edited December 30, 2007 by mopar crazy Link to post Share on other sites
PoshPrincess Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Unleast he's honest with you and talks to you about his gf:) Yes, he IS honest, but he has no need to lie to Lizzie because she is honest about having no expectations from her As. From what I can see they are just a means to an end (correct me if I'm wrong Lizzie!) As for her young lover and his bi girlfriend, they have a seriously f**ked up R. Horses for courses though, I guess, although it doesn't exactly sound like this is an 'open' R. I am in total agreement with the person who said sleeping with someone of the same sex is still cheating. Of course it is! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 2, 2008 Author Share Posted January 2, 2008 Yes, he IS honest, but he has no need to lie to Lizzie because she is honest about having no expectations from her As. From what I can see they are just a means to an end (correct me if I'm wrong Lizzie!) As for her young lover and his bi girlfriend, they have a seriously f**ked up R. Horses for courses though, I guess, although it doesn't exactly sound like this is an 'open' R. I am in total agreement with the person who said sleeping with someone of the same sex is still cheating. Of course it is! You're right.. I have no expectations... But I don't agree when you say she is cheating... she's not because she told him about it every time.. (it doesn't happen on a regular basis) it happened only a few times... he doesn't mind it, as long as it is with girls only... lol Link to post Share on other sites
BentSpine Posted January 2, 2008 Share Posted January 2, 2008 (edited) I can't sit here and lecture on how wrong you are Lizzie for screwing some one's BF because I did the same thing years ago. However, it's the MM that you are screwing I will lecture you about, lol! So the difference between being lectured or not depends on having lived out a Cinderella fantasy for a day. My thought is that Lizzie's lover really IS honest if he has told his jealous partner about his relationship with Lizzie. Otherwise I would expect him to only be honest with topics that are favourable to him. Doing work for another is a caring gesture though. Edited January 2, 2008 by BentSpine Link to post Share on other sites
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