Coolit Posted September 17, 2013 Share Posted September 17, 2013 So this morning xMM contacted me and accused me of not moving on, being a ****e disturber, and just trying to start trouble. That i didn't deserve my wonderful family. And that I had ruined the civility we had got for public meetings... So I replied that I could not lie and take the fall for him on this. That we fooled around equally and I that i felt i should at least give his w the truth. And no matter how much he wants his story to be true, it isn't and him and I both know it. That what I did with him was wrog and stupid but I did not "take advantage of him" My H saw his message and my reply before sending it. And i told xMM now that his W has been given the truth I have no need for further contact. H told me I should have probably told him that if his story leaks out about the A we will tell people the truth. And the truth is far more plausible then his version. If he contacts me again (this is the first time he has, boy, I must of really upset him). H is going to have a little chat with him. And I do mean chat. xMM was a bouncer and my H is a computer geek. Link to post Share on other sites
Betterthanthis13 Posted September 29, 2013 Share Posted September 29, 2013 This thread sort of fell off, but I am glad it got resurrected. Why do you think you felt "lighter"? I have some thoughts, theories... but I am more curious to hear yours Link to post Share on other sites
harrybrown Posted September 29, 2013 Share Posted September 29, 2013 Any updates? How does your husband feel now? Link to post Share on other sites
AlwaysGrowing Posted October 4, 2013 Share Posted October 4, 2013 You could get a DNA test done on your children. For men, they have to take a woman at her word that the child is his. Woman know that the child is hers. Even if it was said jokingly, I would think you would want to remove all doubt. Link to post Share on other sites
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