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Hey everyone!

 

I've been married for 19 years now, and I feel more alone than ever. My husband is never home anymore, and I don't see that changing. I'm starting to think I should create my "own" life (not divorce or separation). Just to start doing things on my own and not having to concern myself with "him" all the time. I guess I'm just a little nervous about doing that. I can't recall complain my life is good... house, kids, etc. I'm just alone more often than not and I want to feel in control of my own life. Anyway, I know I'm not the only person to go through this, so I guess I'm just looking for advice from other women who have been through this.

 

Thanks!! :)

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What exactly is he doing with his time?

 

And, do you work? Do you have friends? Do you have any interests aside from your home and your family?

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Superchicken

Another couple of questions, is why aren't you also going out with him ?.

Where is he going ?.

 

 

There's more your not telling us I feel.

Was there a major incident in your relationship ?, as it doesn't just go south for no reason.

 

 

There would be a slow shift to going out more and more.

 

 

So, what the rest of the story here ?.

Anything more we need to know ?..

 

 

Ted

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