StreetDog Posted November 10, 2010 Share Posted November 10, 2010 My wife has become a different person since we've had a kid. We've been together 11 years, married 5, have a 2 year old. I love our child so much, Wife loves our child so much but she seems to forget (in my feeling) that we used to be a couple, that we were in love, etc. She's turned into MOM and she's less WIFE. Not so interested in sex and it's always me that brings it up or initiates it, not as affectionate as she used to be either, I'm always giving her hugs, giving her kisses, trying to hold her hand and she doesn't try a lot of that with me. But she's still friendly and happy however 95% of her attention and priority is for Baby.... ...Which i love, don't get me wrong. I love that she's super, super attentive to our child and i'm not jealous, I'd just still like to feel like she loves me...I know she does but nothing feels romantic anymore. I know it's up to me to talk to her, I just never thought it'd be like this, as in love and as crazy as we were about each other for years and years. It's weird. Link to post Share on other sites
MAN1 Posted November 25, 2010 Share Posted November 25, 2010 Yes things change. You are going to have to get used to sharing your wife and her affections with the child. Watch out though.... See my post for why. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t254812/ Link to post Share on other sites
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