Guest Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 Hi All, Hoping you could give me some insight. Over the last three years, I have been in love with a man I met online, we live in separate countries. The thing is, we are within the same online communities, and there are a bunch of females completely besotted by him who he also talks to online. He claims to love me like he's never loved another before, and I believe that. Yet I can't help but wonder why he keeps the others in love with him still around. He's extremely adamant in telling me they're all just "friends and associates" to him and that I am the only one he loves.... and he is getting extremely tired of my insinuations that perhaps he needs them more than he realises. Should I be bothered by these "associates" as he calls them, or am I going too far with this? It really bothers me. I'm not a social person online, just enjoyed his time, and looked forward to that. I suppose he and I differ in that way. I just can't seem to understand why he keeps this girls around who are so in love with him. I believe his love for me is true though. Any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
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