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Old 17th November 2016, 1:14 PM   #1
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How do I get her to stop liking me?

There's a girl in class who has been showing interest for the past six months. Despite me not showing any interest back, she still hasn't stopped and it's really starting to annoy me. She's looking at me literally every day and is always trying to be close to me. I've barely looked at her hoping she would get the message that I'm not interested but she won't stop.
I feel bad for her, but do you have any suggestions on how I can get her to stop staring at me, or even better, stop liking me? I don't want to be rude and tell her to stop staring at me though because she seems like a nice girl.
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Old 17th November 2016, 1:19 PM   #2
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Has she ever spoken to you and expressed interest? What class is this that you've been in for the past 6 months? Is the semester close to ending for you? Just ignore her.
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Old 17th November 2016, 1:23 PM   #3
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You can't control someone elses actions, but you can control yours.. she's probably trying to get you to ask her out and by you not showing any interest she will give up eventually. Do you sit by her? Ask the teacher to move you if she has easy access to getting close to you.
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Old 17th November 2016, 1:25 PM   #4
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Has she ever spoken to you and expressed interest? What class is this that you've been in for the past 6 months? Is the semester close to ending for you? Just ignore her.
Yeah she's been trying to strike up converstations with me a couple of times but we haven't talked much really.
We have multiple classes together and it's not going to end soon. I've been trying to ignore her all this time and it hasn't worked, but perhaps if I continue to ignore her she'll stop soon? Or should I try to stare her down sometimes when she stares at me?

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You can't control someone elses actions, but you can control yours.. she's probably trying to get you to ask her out and by you not showing any interest she will give up eventually. Do you sit by her? Ask the teacher to move you if she has easy access to getting close to you.
I've been hoping she would give up but it's been like six months now, which is crazy. I've not showed any interest back, at all.
I'm hoping she'll stop showing interest soon because sometimes it makes me a but uncomfortable knowing she's staring at me 24/7.
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Old 17th November 2016, 1:52 PM   #5
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I think you should focus on your schoolwork and ignore her. From what you've stated, she's not doing anything that would be considered harassment. If you stare at her while she's staring at you, she might see that as you being interested. Just try to stop looking in her direction and pretend like she's not there.
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Old 17th November 2016, 1:57 PM   #6
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Let her see you with your arm around another girl. That will take the wind out of her sails.
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Old 18th November 2016, 2:00 PM   #7
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Sounds like your a nice bloke, if you want to tell her without being rude, or uncaring.


Just tell her that at your age, you don't want to be in a relationship with a girl right now.
Your having fun with your mates, and life without wanting to expand or infringe on that with a girlfriend.
Tell her you can be friends only, and say hello here and there, but nothing more.


Don't let her keep getting more emotionally attached to you for too long.


Most of all please be mindful, that's its a young person, and you can and will bring pain in her life. How you do it, will determine her recovery time.


But, what I wish more for, is this girl grow up to look like Charlize Theron, and rub it in your face in 10 years or so !.


Everyone deserves a chance..


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Old 18th November 2016, 5:39 PM   #8
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Sounds like your a nice bloke, if you want to tell her without being rude, or uncaring.


Just tell her that at your age, you don't want to be in a relationship with a girl right now.
Your having fun with your mates, and life without wanting to expand or infringe on that with a girlfriend.
Tell her you can be friends only, and say hello here and there, but nothing more.


Don't let her keep getting more emotionally attached to you for too long.


Most of all please be mindful, that's its a young person, and you can and will bring pain in her life. How you do it, will determine her recovery time.


But, what I wish more for, is this girl grow up to look like Charlize Theron, and rub it in your face in 10 years or so !.


Everyone deserves a chance..


Ted.
That's what I'm going to say to her if she one day decides to ask me out or something similar. We're not talking though so there's a risk that she will keep staring at me until she one day gets sick of it.

She's not ugly, she looks pretty average but I'm just not feeling anything for this girl.
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Old 19th November 2016, 3:11 AM   #9
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I get this a lot from girls. I get flirted with a lot.

I told a girl who was all over me that I was gay and instead of taking the hint she challenged me to give her a try and she'd convert me.
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Old 14th February 2017, 2:07 PM   #10
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Three months later she still hasn't stopped staring at me.
Look, how do I tell her that I'm not interested without hurting her feelings? We're barely talking because I avoid her all the time but she still won't stop.
It's really annoying because I see her every day and I can't wait till school is over because we're gonna have the same classes for a long time.
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Old 14th February 2017, 2:13 PM   #11
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Sounds like your a nice bloke, if you want to tell her without being rude, or uncaring.


Just tell her that at your age, you don't want to be in a relationship with a girl right now.
Your having fun with your mates, and life without wanting to expand or infringe on that with a girlfriend.
Tell her you can be friends only, and say hello here and there, but nothing more.


Don't let her keep getting more emotionally attached to you for too long.


Most of all please be mindful, that's its a young person, and you can and will bring pain in her life. How you do it, will determine her recovery time.


But, what I wish more for, is this girl grow up to look like Charlize Theron, and rub it in your face in 10 years or so !.


Everyone deserves a chance..


Ted.
UM, he's a young person as well and has every right not to be interested in her that way. Plus, he can't control her emotions.
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Old 14th February 2017, 2:16 PM   #12
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Three months later she still hasn't stopped staring at me.
Look, how do I tell her that I'm not interested without hurting her feelings? We're barely talking because I avoid her all the time but she still won't stop.
It's really annoying because I see her every day and I can't wait till school is over because we're gonna have the same classes for a long time.
The next time she stares at you ask her "why do you stare at me?" with a straight face and no smile. If she tells you she's interested tell her you are not. If she doesn't say anything perhaps she got the message.
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Old 14th February 2017, 3:35 PM   #13
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Three months later she still hasn't stopped staring at me.
Look, how do I tell her that I'm not interested without hurting her feelings? We're barely talking because I avoid her all the time but she still won't stop.
It's really annoying because I see her every day and I can't wait till school is over because we're gonna have the same classes for a long time.
Go eat a ton of Arby's, walk up to her and belch in her face and tell her you'll give her 10 bucks if she can "Guess Your Lunch".

That should do it.
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Old 14th February 2017, 4:22 PM   #14
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Why don't you just make her President of the fan club, and tell her to start recruiting more members?
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Old 15th February 2017, 3:45 PM   #15
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Go eat a ton of Arby's, walk up to her and belch in her face and tell her you'll give her 10 bucks if she can "Guess Your Lunch".

That should do it.
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Why don't you just make her President of the fan club, and tell her to start recruiting more members?


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The next time she stares at you ask her "why do you stare at me?" with a straight face and no smile. If she tells you she's interested tell her you are not. If she doesn't say anything perhaps she got the message.
I'm actually going to try and do that, even if I will come off as a bit rude. Can't wait to see her reaction.
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