jen_r Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 Anyone on here ever date a touring musician? I'm finding it hard to deal with and I'm getting jealous at every little thing. I feel like the majority of my day is just wondering what he's doing or who he's with. Granted he texts me and calls me all day long - I just see girls posting pics with him on instagram and that he follows new girls on instagram that he's obviously met from shows. I don't think he's doing anything shady or hooking up with anyone...but I still find myself obsessing over things. He' gone for another month and a half and I'm just wondering to myself - can I deal with this?? He went on tour for 2 months when we first met, but at that point i didn't worry about him because we barely knew each other. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 In bars with all that alcohol, it's not uncommon for people to throw themselves at musicians. You know this. You also are feeling uneasy because you aren't there to stake your claim. It takes a special person to put up with this. You might not be that person. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ja123 Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 This is a part of being with a touring musician, I'm afraid. You can either live with it, or you can't. Link to post Share on other sites
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