Is female coming each time 4 the man? and why fake?

[cal gal]

I know a lot of women fake orgasms. In my 20 yrs of marriage and dating before I never wanted to pretend. When it happens - which is not every time - it is with such profound muscle strength and emotion that I can hardly walk for two days. (legs like noodles).

 

So, I was just asking what the take is on why you would fake as a woman?

 

From a man's perspective - can you tell if it is fake? (you should be able

to - as my lower muscles are gripping and pulsing at his everything!) Can hardly breathe for ten minutes.

 

Is the faking thing to please the man? Both men's and women's perspective

would be interesting.

[lilmoma1973]

 

I don't see how someone can fake one .. I never have been able to always have the big O with the legs like noodles!!

[cal gal]

not every time, as I stated, or I would never get

through life! he he

 

my question was - why fake if the true "feeling" of orgasm

is not there? Is the fake to make the men feel better/more

powerful?

[konfuzd]

I think there are 3 basic reasons girls fake it:

 

1-To give her man an ego boost, and avoid the awkwardness of dissapointment, some guys take it really personally

 

2-Some guys just won't give up, and will keep going until they get it right. She really just wants to roll over and go to sleep

 

3-She's never had a real one, so she actually thinks she's having one, and plays up the role as she's seen on porn flicks...

 

 

Feel free to add more if you can think of any, could make for an interesting thread!

[Walk]

The only time I've faked an orgasm was when I just wanted the guy I had been dating at the time to stop. He didn't notice it wasn't a real orgasm, which in my opinion he would've if he'd really been doing this for me, and not just his ego. But he never figured out what foreplay was either, or that there was more to sex then insert, thrust, repeat.

 

Other men I just explain that its not going to happen, either too much on my mind, or too tired, whatever. If they have any confidence in themselves then it isn't a big deal. I'd rather be honest than fake something like that with a significant other.

[whichwayisup]

So, I was just asking what the take is on why you would fake as a woman?

 

I faked it once because I knew I wasn't going to cum. The guy I was dating at the time was going down on me and prided himself on how good he was. I told him that I more than likely wouldn't cum, but either way it would still feel great! Part way through I decided to give him a "helping hand" which he took offense to! He smacked my hand away and said "I can do this!!" He kept on going and asked me if I was almost there yet. The look on his face and all that effort - For me - I couldn't tell him I was no where near close. So I white lied ... I faked it as he continued. The only time I ever did that. And yeah, I felt bad but I think he would have felt worse if I didn't fake it.