Love2015 Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 I only went on 6 dates. We had sex twice. He started calling me nicknames early on which I found weird. Its been over a month we have not met yet he texts every day with words as luv, honey, blowing kisses and missing me. I have confronted him saying let's cut it off. He promises to see me and plans but last minute cancels. I have waited but now am feeling depressed. Is he interested or? He has kids and work which he constantly uses as excuse. Should I go no contact? Link to post Share on other sites
CollegeKid101 Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Yes, he's just toying with you to keep you on a thin thread. Guys who are actually into you will 100% make time. I'm in an intense graduate program and can still attest to this. Link to post Share on other sites
Jdoublenn Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Sounds like he had fun with the sex but just wants to keep you around for now without any real commitment.... Its possible hes in a relationship and is keeping you on the line 'just in case'.. Either way, bail. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Love2015 Posted December 15, 2017 Author Share Posted December 15, 2017 There he goes again...new day ...new morning...I receive his txt with Morning love! What is his deal? I have not seen him over a month. The problem is I really liked him... Suggestions...reply, not reply? What to reply? Link to post Share on other sites
Gr8fuln2020 Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Ignoring his texts is the best thing you can do. He is using you as an alternative sex option. Like others, he is likely dating someone else or married. Whatever the case, he is using that person(s) as well. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 I don't understand you. You say you like him but you don't like the sweet names he calls you and asked to cut if off. If you weren't happy with the number of times he canceled on you did you tell him this? If you do not want to be bothered with him anymore tell him so and block him. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 He will continue to reach out as long as you keep responding. If you want him to stop, stop responding. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 (edited) There he goes again...new day ...new morning...I receive his txt with Morning love! What is his deal? I have not seen him over a month. The problem is I really liked him... Suggestions...reply, not reply? What to reply? Probably married or has a girlfriend. Keeps you on a string for an ego boost/attention. Maybe that's why he can't meet you and cancels at the last minute. You know you're an option but you're holding on. It's not changing so let go. Don't reply. Raise your standards. Edited December 15, 2017 by Zahara 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Ya he's with someone else and you are the cookie on the side....the love bombing, and the absence is telling. Link to post Share on other sites
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