MissingMyHubby Posted December 7, 2017 Posted December 7, 2017 Just got out of a LTR, however I've been friends with an old coworker for a couple years. We've had beers together, hiked and etc. I let it be known recently I find her sexy and I have no idea what she sees me as. We have a mutual friend Paul whom she sees completely platonically and I asked her basically to clarify herself. Here's what she said: "you're about an entire empire state building above Paul in that regard " I asked to reclarify and this is what she said Lol it means I would never in a million years be physically attracted to Paul and you're light years above him in the attractiveness realm lmao So, is it a "my **** finds u attractive" or is it "you're attractive as a friend?"
Author MissingMyHubby Posted December 7, 2017 Author Posted December 7, 2017 She also has admitted that she's actively avoided non platonic relationships in the last few years and also doesn't admit to herself or anyone if she's into people in "that" way.
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 7, 2017 Posted December 7, 2017 (edited) It sounds like she's not ruling you out as she finds you attractive, or at least entire empire state building above Paul. It sounds promising enough I guess, although just because she thinks you're attractive doesn't necessarily mean she's looking for a relationship with you. If you want to find out for sure, ask her out on a date Edited December 7, 2017 by Michelle ma Belle
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