isabellaelaine Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 I recently went to prom with my crush and had a great time, and I'm pretty sure he did as well. We're both very shy, and my friend who was helping him ask me had to repeatedly assure him that I wouldn't say no. At the dance, we didn't talk all that much (we were both pretty nervous), but it wasn't as awkward as I expected it to be (except for slow dances). When we were dancing in a circle with our friends, he seemed to bump into me a lot, but I couldn't tell if it was on purpose or just because of the large amount of people. After the dance when he dropped me off, I thanked him for going with me and said that I had a lot of fun. He replied saying that he had a lot of fun as well. We haven't talked much since prom, but I really don't want it to be a one-time thing. However, I doubt that he'll ask me out on his own because he needed a lot of nudging to ask me to prom in the first place. We're also graduating in a week, so maybe he is hesitant to start something so soon before college. Should I wait for him to make the first move or should I ask him out? I don't have his phone number, only facebook messenger, and he is always with friends at school, so I don't know how to go about it. So sorry for the long rant, and thanks in advance for your replies! Link to post Share on other sites
PogoStick Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 Ask him out in front of his friends. He'll feel awesome. Link to post Share on other sites
frus69 Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 How confident you think he likes you? If it's under 80% I would drop it, if I were you. Having said that, if you really wanna try just strike a convo with him on Facebook "hey how have you been " but don't ask him out just yet Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 I'd arrange a group thing then invite him along. Before you make the bold move to ask him out, set up a few scenarios where you clue him into the idea that if he is brave enough to ask you out that the answer will be yes. Link to post Share on other sites
itstoni Posted May 25, 2016 Share Posted May 25, 2016 As a guy, it could throw him off balance if you were to ask him out, so do it when you're one on one. should you ask him out? Yes! Or you could wait for something that won't ever happen, the choice is yours Link to post Share on other sites
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