Almost 4 years, feel like we're falling apart

[sect]

I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years. We have a 1 year old child together. After I had our baby my sex drive was gone. I can't do anything about, I have no desire. If we try it hurts, there is no pleasure and I havennt been able to orgasm for almost 2 years. There's nothing there for me anymore. I My BF has a fairly high desire and it effects the relationship. I have no desire to do anything, the more he pushes the more I pull away.

 

He's not cheating yet but I'm scared it's coming and I don't know what to do. There is no romance left. He said it feels more like a friendship.

[ExpatInItaly]

Speak to your doctor. They can check for hormonal imbalances, physical issues and so on.

[mystikmind2005]

sex is a crucial part of a healthy relationship, but it is rarely just the libido that needs fixing. It sounds like the whole relationship will need to evolve if it is going to survive.