sect Posted November 26, 2015 Share Posted November 26, 2015 I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years. We have a 1 year old child together. After I had our baby my sex drive was gone. I can't do anything about, I have no desire. If we try it hurts, there is no pleasure and I havennt been able to orgasm for almost 2 years. There's nothing there for me anymore. I My BF has a fairly high desire and it effects the relationship. I have no desire to do anything, the more he pushes the more I pull away. He's not cheating yet but I'm scared it's coming and I don't know what to do. There is no romance left. He said it feels more like a friendship. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 26, 2015 Share Posted November 26, 2015 Speak to your doctor. They can check for hormonal imbalances, physical issues and so on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mystikmind2005 Posted November 26, 2015 Share Posted November 26, 2015 sex is a crucial part of a healthy relationship, but it is rarely just the libido that needs fixing. It sounds like the whole relationship will need to evolve if it is going to survive. Link to post Share on other sites
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