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Old 28th December 2004, 1:55 PM   #1
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What to say to make her feel special

My girlfriend says that i don't say enough to show that i love her, and i don't say enough things to make her feel happy and special. What should I say?
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Old 28th December 2004, 1:58 PM   #2
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Go to lovingyou.com. They've got great tips!
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ohhhh so-and-so you are sooo special to me! mwah. mwah, mwah.
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Ugh. You're so crass.
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Old 28th December 2004, 2:55 PM   #7
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"Baby, you make me want to spray my man gravy all over your face."
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You're out of your realm. That's porn-o-flick writing there buddy!
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Old 28th December 2004, 3:09 PM   #9
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1) Does she have a cell phone with text messaging? If yes, send her a nice text message with something different every day. mix it up, don't send the same message every time.

2) If you think something nice about her in your head, tell her!

3) Reach out and hold her hand

4) Ask her to cuddle - tell her you just want to hold her. I know its hard but just hold her and set the hormones aside and don't try to "put the moves on her".

5) Don't ever let her open a door in your presence

6) Gaze into her eyes for a minute and don't so much as blink and have a big grin on your face. After a minute goes by and she keeps asking what the matter is or why you are staring at her - tell her how much you care for her or how beautiful she is

....if none of that works then see tanbark813's advice and say it with conviction!
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Hahahaha!!! If that ain't love I don't know what is!!!!lol
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Old 28th December 2004, 3:51 PM   #11
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My girlfriend says that i don't say enough to show that i love her, and i don't say enough things to make her feel happy and special. What should I say?
you should not do or say things on a regular basis like saying I love you or other shyt. the more you use these phrases or actions the less their meaning is.

all women say their man doesn't show enuf affection or say I love you or all that lovey dovey krap. just disregard it and do it when you feel like it otherwise it means nothing.

if you say i love you to her everyday it won't mean nothin'. if you say it to her every few months it means more.
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I saw these flowers today and they reminded of how beautiful you are so I just had to buy them for you
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Old 28th December 2004, 11:13 PM   #14
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I've got to agree with alphamale here - its just words and the more you say em the less meaningful they are! Do you show her? To me that is more important. Showing her means do you call? Do you hold hands, give hugs, etc? Do you make plans with her? Do you follow through? Those are the things that count!
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Old 29th March 2005, 2:16 AM   #15
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My girlfriend says that i don't say enough to show that i love her, and i don't say enough things to make her feel happy and special. What should I say?
you should take your time out of your day just to say u love her or tell her how much you care about her and just ask her how her day is going
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