Bobbi7 Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Having been on several dates and encountering a few guys out in public that were interested...at least half of them start complaining/bitchin at me asking why I am that way I am. Like I had this guy tell me why I don't show emotion, why I don' talk enough, why I don't smile, why I sound depressed...I'm like what the heck??? If all a person does is start complaining about me, then get the get out of my face and find someone else! Link to post Share on other sites
Buddhist Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Having been on several dates and encountering a few guys out in public that were interested...at least half of them start complaining/bitchin at me asking why I am that way I am. Like I had this guy tell me why I don't show emotion, why I don' talk enough, why I don't smile, why I sound depressed...I'm like what the heck??? If all a person does is start complaining about me, then get the get out of my face and find someone else! I'm hazarding a guess here they are likely to be the same guys who go on about the entitlement of women and how they can't get their dick wet often enough. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Having been on several dates and encountering a few guys out in public that were interested...at least half of them start complaining/bitchin at me asking why I am that way I am. Like I had this guy tell me why I don't show emotion, why I don' talk enough, why I don't smile, why I sound depressed...I'm like what the heck??? If all a person does is start complaining about me, then get the get out of my face and find someone else! Yep, they should just walk out on the date and find someone else. That's what I would do if a guy was unemotional, non-talkative, didn't smile and sounded depressed. If I were those men, I'd be feeling disrespected at least. If you didn't want to be on the date, you shouldn't have gone. And, why wouldn't a guy bitch a little when he's gone to the trouble of taking a woman on a date, spending a little money on someone who wasn't any fun to be with and made me feel like she didn't want to be there. Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I've never understood why men who hate women want to date one.... And who does that on a first date??? This latest dating generation has no emotional intelligence or tact. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
HansonGirl Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Having been on several dates and encountering a few guys out in public that were interested...at least half of them start complaining/bitchin at me asking why I am that way I am. Like I had this guy tell me why I don't show emotion, why I don' talk enough, why I don't smile, why I sound depressed...I'm like what the heck??? If all a person does is start complaining about me, then get the get out of my face and find someone else! well it depends. do you act like a robot on dates? I have had a guy tell me once that i am too independent and he wasn't sure if i even liked him at first. yet the dude kept calling me for dates. I actually later learned that what i was doing was in line with that book, "the rules" (even though i didnt know it at the time), and clearly it worked. I wasn't doing it on purpose, it was just my personality and the fact I wasn't head-over-heels for him... i liked him but i wasn't like obsessed anyways, i would say that if this guy keeps wanting to see you, but keeps whining and complaining, let him. Haven't you seen your female friends do the SAME THING toward a guy? The guy really is into you and feels powerless and frustrated because he hasn't "cracked" you. Reassure him you're interested, but don't change for a guy. Link to post Share on other sites
DatingAdvise Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Most men, want to be found nice by a woman they like. They try to make her laugh, do extra nice to her. If the woman is not resiprocating, he start asking this kind of questions. Basicly he is asking himself, am i not good enough, whats wrong with me. Men are much more egocentric. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Male Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I've never understood why men who hate women want to date one.... And who does that on a first date??? This latest dating generation has no emotional intelligence or tact. I dont think they really hate women. They probably just have serious issues with "control". Its a "I'm in charge complex" and I'm going to tell you whats wrong with you, what you can and cant do, and how you can fix it. I'm sure guys like that are also always giving their unwanted opinion to strangers as well. I would love to know if guys like that are aware of WHY they never get a 2nd date, or are they totally clueless of their actions? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I would love to know if guys like that are aware of WHY they never get a 2nd date, or are they totally clueless of their actions? They didn't get a second date because she was a b*tch and she only really likes alphas anyway... "I'm a nice guy" 3 Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Yep, they should just walk out on the date and find someone else. That's what I would do if a guy was unemotional, non-talkative, didn't smile and sounded depressed. If I were those men, I'd be feeling disrespected at least. If you didn't want to be on the date, you shouldn't have gone. And, why wouldn't a guy bitch a little when he's gone to the trouble of taking a woman on a date, spending a little money on someone who wasn't any fun to be with and made me feel like she didn't want to be there. ^^ Haha..some men would actually consider that a challenge! On a first date, people are nervous, shy or what have you, and it takes a few dates for them to warm up. I think any man who would be so obnoxious to say such things on the first few dates are the ones to be walked out on....not the other way around.! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
edgygirl Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 My guess is you're an introvert (and I LOVE introverts) and certain guys don't get it as society's view on women is that they should be friendly, lovely, talkative, nurturing. Do some research on this (Myers Briggs is a good resource) and try to find guys to date who will appreciate your introversion. Many people like me (and I am an extrovert) love introverts. You just have to find the right people to date who will appreciate your personality. http://www.16personalities.com/personality-types Having been on several dates and encountering a few guys out in public that were interested...at least half of them start complaining/bitchin at me asking why I am that way I am. Like I had this guy tell me why I don't show emotion, why I don' talk enough, why I don't smile, why I sound depressed...I'm like what the heck??? If all a person does is start complaining about me, then get the get out of my face and find someone else! Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Yep, they should just walk out on the date and find someone else. That's what I would do if a guy was unemotional, non-talkative, didn't smile and sounded depressed. If I were those men, I'd be feeling disrespected at least. If you didn't want to be on the date, you shouldn't have gone. And, why wouldn't a guy bitch a little when he's gone to the trouble of taking a woman on a date, spending a little money on someone who wasn't any fun to be with and made me feel like she didn't want to be there. Because going on a date isn't the same as hiring a paid escort! Going on a date is just to see if you like the other person at all. If not, move the fk on. Jeez, sorry not every girl is as welcoming as the ones in porn videos. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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