Do you take selfies on your first date?

[skyblue707]

I went on a first date with a guy from OLD, we were at a club and he took a selfie of us. I took his phone and deleted, and said I didn't like getting my picture taken. Then he said, "oh you are such a pretty girl, don't know why you don't want your picture taken." I don't want him to post it up on facebook. Besides, I don't want to see the guy again.

[mammasita]

Hell no....I think that's real weird for a first date. Very attention whore-ish. I don't blame you for deleting it.

[40 Fonzarelli]

It depends how the date is going. If we are having a great time, I like to capture the moment. Makes for a great memory, especially if things end up working out.

[Blakely]

Only once have i been in a first date selfie....Don't judge...we were at concert in a casino and both of us were buzzed up:) He pulled out his phone and got in selfie mode, so i went with it and smiled pretty lol

[Phoe]

No.

 

 

 

 

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[Lernaean_Hydra]

It happens. I've generally found it awkward but have been asked several times and like others have said, it depends on how the night's going.

[Omei]

I dated a guy for a week and he kept taking pictures of me without even asking without even my knowledge at first till he showed me like picture after picture the one I remember most is when its just of the back of me watching tv and its like the hell???

 

I asked him to stop doing it and he stopped doing it when I wasn't looking and started doing it to my face when I would look up or in his direction he would really wait till I glaced and hed snap it.

 

I grew so annoyed and...

 

I told him if he didnt delete I would wrestle the phone from his finger tips and smash it.

 

I told him I wouldnt go on anymore dates

 

super creep status

[Andy_K]

Generally no. But it would be kinda cool to have a first date memory to look back on if things work out, so I could possibly see it happening if we were getting on super well, had already kissed, etc. Still wouldn't facebook it for a few weeks though.

[wwejonathan]

It really depend on if you enjoy the moment and how much you like a guy. If brad pitt went on a date with you, you will take a selfie with him. There is nothing right or wrong about it but it all depend on in-the-moment how you feel. And if you don't feel right, tell him politely that you don't feel comfortable, most man will respect that. Hope that help

[Toodaloo]

Erm no.

 

First date = stranger... Don't blame you for deleting them...

 

I don't tend to take selfies anyway let alone with strangers.

 

I only ever really take them so I can send them to my best mate and she can "see" me in between skype calls and visits. They are rarely flattering and usually involve me pulling a face or doing something daft. It helps her to not miss me so much as she feels involved from across the water.

 

You want a momento keep the tickets or go back again.

[veggirl]

No. Sounds like something the around 24 and under crowd would do.

[Destined2B]

I went on a first date with a guy from OLD, we were at a club and he took a selfie of us. I took his phone and deleted, and said I didn't like getting my picture taken. Then he said, "oh you are such a pretty girl, don't know why you don't want your picture taken." I don't want him to post it up on facebook. Besides, I don't want to see the guy again.

I wouldn't want to see this guy too- he takes a selfies instead of making someone else take a pic of you two. What a beta-male...