fldoglover Posted July 28, 2014 Share Posted July 28, 2014 Hi there, Long story short, there is a guy who I work out with and have known him for over a year. We kind of flirted but I was in a relationship, so it was more friendly than anything. Once I broke up with my boyfriend, he began to talk to me a lot more. I know he is a gentleman and a bit on the religious side so I'm not sure if he's flirting with me or being nice. Last weekend, he commented on a Facebook post when he realized we were at the same restaurant and went out of his way to come find me and meet my friends. He had a few drinks and was pretty flirty. Asked for my number, was grabbing my butt and being very flirtous. He then invited me the next day to hang out with a group of mutual friends. That went well, but it definitely wasn't like the night before. However, it was a more calm setting but he was very friendly and talkative toward me and walked me to my house after. I said he should go grab drinks at one point and he said he'd like to sometime soon but we didn't solidify a date. My question is, should I assume he likes me or was he just drunk that one night? Link to post Share on other sites
truth_seeker Posted July 28, 2014 Share Posted July 28, 2014 Alcohol enables people to do things they normally wouldn't... for instance, reveal their true feelings. Also, it gives people a great excuse if things don't go well or they want out of a situation. "I was drunk. I don't remember. Sorry." See? Easy out. People who usually do this are women who are embarrassed, don't wan to come off as a slut... guys who are pussies and don't want to admit the truth. Drunk or not, he's grabbing your ass cause he's into you and wants to have sex with you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Assasda Posted July 28, 2014 Share Posted July 28, 2014 Yes he likes you, and How old are you OP? Link to post Share on other sites
Author fldoglover Posted July 30, 2014 Author Share Posted July 30, 2014 26, I know my question seems juvenile but I was in a 5 year relationship and so this is my first attempt at "getting back on the horse". It's been 6 months since my ex and I broke up. Either way, we still have not set a date so I am weighing on the side that he isn't all that interested. He does seem a little shy though and I don't believe he's been in a relationship for a long time, so I'm not sure how to read him. Since I left the ball in his court, should I just back off or ask with a specific day/time? Link to post Share on other sites
rewl Posted July 30, 2014 Share Posted July 30, 2014 Since I left the ball in his court, should I just back off or ask with a specific day/time? Wait. What's that noise? I think it's the biological clock counting down. You better contact him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author fldoglover Posted July 30, 2014 Author Share Posted July 30, 2014 Haha absolutely not. Just trying to avoid an awkward situation if he's not interested since I see him a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
Dork Vader Posted July 31, 2014 Share Posted July 31, 2014 Okay guys don't grab buts of a woman they are NOT interested in. What likely happened was the alcohol made him a tad bit more bold. He has some interest in you. What is hard to say but it is there.. Contact him and see what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
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