steelgator Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 So I took this girl i met online to lunch. We never really talked before just set up a date. We had a nice conversation. There were only a couple awkward silences that didn't last long. Laughed a bit. I paid for both of us ended up being $50. At the end of the date she went right for a hug and said "text me later, I'm going to take a nap." Now in my mind, the hug means she just wants to be friends and nothing more but she also told me to text her later? Girls any advice on this? Link to post Share on other sites
Author steelgator Posted April 22, 2014 Author Share Posted April 22, 2014 also she said that she doesn't drink and I told her I was kind of a partier in college but I'm getting over that phase but Idk if that turned her off Link to post Share on other sites
Damaged217 Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 It's hard to say. Not enough information. How was she throughout the date? Was she touchy-feely at all? The hug doesn't mean she wasn't into you. I almost always go for a hug at the end of the first date just to avoid the whole awkward first kiss thing. You won't really know anything until you text her. Just text her and see if she's interested in going out again. If she makes up excuses or doesn't bother to text you back, well, you'll have your answer. Link to post Share on other sites
bu2002 Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Just ask her out for an evening date Link to post Share on other sites
armed Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 If there appears to be mixed signals then it probably is and I would hang back for a bit. Link to post Share on other sites
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