Cancer_girl7893 Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 Me and this guy has been dating for 3 months. He told me that he wanted to take things slow around the 2nd months of us dating and I haven't seem him in almost a month. We was talking every night until about 2 weeks ago and he claims that he is not getting my call because, he doesn't have any service but he has an iPhone 5 how don't you have service? But he tells me last Thursday that if I keep over-analyzing things I'm going to hurt myself, but I haven't talk to him on the phone in almost a week but we was texting slightly over the weekend. So am I overthinking the situation? Should I just move on?! Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 you might be over analysing.....but the fact is you want to see him more you dont feel comfortable or secure dating him due to lack of communication....to me not seeing someoen for a month while dating isnt really dating unless you are long distance dating..an di take dating slow....in slow i mean relaxed datign withotu sex but a generally set dates.what you describe isnt dating to me...that just simple to me no analysis needed..just this simplicity.....no communication infrequent dates....lack of interst by one party ......not dating...deb Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cancer_girl7893 Posted September 26, 2013 Author Share Posted September 26, 2013 We was dating the first 2 months he would see me every weekend. But he had told me he doesn't like clingy girls and he hasn't talk to females longer than 2 months for that reason, they get to clingy. Link to post Share on other sites
truth_seeker Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 This guy is full of sh-t. The disappearing act and excuses mean someone else is in the picture or he lost interest. Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 What makes you think the two of you are still dating when you haven't seen him in a month and haven't talked to him in a week? Move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
nescafe1982 Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 Don't waste your time on this one. He doesn't sound like her worth any effort at all, and he's effectively told you (in both word and deed) that he's not relationship material! Link to post Share on other sites
albingma Posted September 26, 2013 Share Posted September 26, 2013 There's no point stressing over him. He's mucking you around. Move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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