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Old 28th January 2013, 11:51 PM   #1
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Why is he showing interest in me now?

This guy that I liked turned out to be a total player. I went on one date with him, he acted all interested and then after that he completely avoided me. I never found out why. Anyways I found out he was dating a lot of different girls and wasn't serious about any of them. I got tired of hoping he would start liking me again, and started showing interest in other guys. Now he is acting interested in me again! Why is this?
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Old 29th January 2013, 12:20 AM   #2
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This is pretty common...
It's happened to me several times. Even in reverse (me showing no interest, then when I am interested they back off). I've never understood it. Thrill of the chase thing I suppose?

Lets see what the guys say about this..
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Old 29th January 2013, 12:28 AM   #3
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Did you sleep with him?
did he try to sleep with you & you shut him down?

If he's a total player he would of tried to get some play then bailed when he couldn't.
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Old 29th January 2013, 12:34 AM   #4
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Its the challenge. I guarantee the second you give it up or act like you really like him he will pull away again
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Old 29th January 2013, 12:35 AM   #5
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Some of you need to first learn what a player is.

This guy wasn't a player. He just had no interest in you, period.
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Old 29th January 2013, 1:16 AM   #6
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Because they guy's a player. Don't hate the player hate the game, or vice versa. But whatever the case may be, ditch him.
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Old 29th January 2013, 1:49 AM   #7
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This is pretty common...
It's happened to me several times. Even in reverse (me showing no interest, then when I am interested they back off). I've never understood it. Thrill of the chase thing I suppose?

Lets see what the guys say about this..
I can only speak for myself. But I HATE it when a girl is too into me (lol). Reciprocating is one thing. But if she gets aggressive in pursuing me, especially when we first meet, its a total turnoff.

If I was a girl, knowing what I know as a guy, I'd say that playing hard-to-get is definitely the way to go. That way, you eliminate the guys who just wanna ****, from the guys who actually have a longer term interest. Or so you'd hope.
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