avn11 Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 In general, do girls date guys who makes minimum income? Here's my dilemma - I'm a full time, college student working at least 20 hours a week. The problem is I make only 10 bucks an hour, and I live at a apartment with my mom. The problem is it is a one room apartment, and I sleep on the floor, giving the room to my mom. I'm too embarrassed to talk about my financial situation to anyone. So being poor, I get this impression that girls won't date me if I tell them my situation. Also, I will be super embarrass if I bring a girl home and she finds out I sleep on the floor. By next year, I will be going to graduate school, but I want to date (it has been too long), but I"m too embarrass and afraid that the ladies will laugh if I tell them I'm poor. Any suggestions?
kaylan Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Dude...girls dont give a crap about being poor when your in college because most of them are as well. Youre fine. Youre going to school and your working. Thats something to be proud of. Keep doing your thing.
FitChick Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 If you're dating other poor college students, they should sympathize. You don't have to bring a date home. After a date go back to her place.
zlatnapolja Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 In general, do girls date guys who makes minimum income? Here's my dilemma - I'm a full time, college student working at least 20 hours a week. The problem is I make only 10 bucks an hour, and I live at a apartment with my mom. The problem is it is a one room apartment, and I sleep on the floor, giving the room to my mom. I'm too embarrassed to talk about my financial situation to anyone. So being poor, I get this impression that girls won't date me if I tell them my situation. Also, I will be super embarrass if I bring a girl home and she finds out I sleep on the floor. By next year, I will be going to graduate school, but I want to date (it has been too long), but I"m too embarrass and afraid that the ladies will laugh if I tell them I'm poor. Any suggestions? some girls wont, some girls will. I would. Its all about how you make a girl feel! I think its so amazing that you're doing all of this, as a matter a fact I might not date you because I'd feel intimidated, because I'd feel you might just be too good for me! Dont worry, you'll be fine! And when you have your diploma, you can buy a bigger appartment/house for you and your mom. I admire you for working so hard and being so selfless!
mesmerized Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Dude...girls dont give a crap about being poor when your in college because most of them are as well. Youre fine. Youre going to school and your working. Thats something to be proud of. Keep doing your thing. I agree, it would be different if you were like 40 and poor! As a college student you have nothing to worry about.
ctes300 Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Generally, women want a provider not a poor guy. But they also recognize a man with direction and a future. When this is understood the situation of being poor is seen as temporary and a sacrifice for something better. All honorable traits. There are plenty of women that would be happy to be with someone like you.
TheFinalWord Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 In general, do girls date guys who makes minimum income? Here's my dilemma - I'm a full time, college student working at least 20 hours a week. The problem is I make only 10 bucks an hour, and I live at a apartment with my mom. The problem is it is a one room apartment, and I sleep on the floor, giving the room to my mom. I'm too embarrassed to talk about my financial situation to anyone. So being poor, I get this impression that girls won't date me if I tell them my situation. Also, I will be super embarrass if I bring a girl home and she finds out I sleep on the floor. By next year, I will be going to graduate school, but I want to date (it has been too long), but I"m too embarrass and afraid that the ladies will laugh if I tell them I'm poor. Any suggestions? Yeah, it is okay for most women; see the bright side...If they like you, you will know it's because of who you are as a person. Plus sleeping on the floor for your mom shows character and a good heart. You know the rule...men will treat their wife like they treat their mom I'm in the same situation. Well grad school so I get a stipend but it's not much. You can't take a girl out to eat at fancy places very much or buy her presents. You have to get more creative with your date ideas Picnics, shop at the grocery and make her dinner. If you date regularly, you can write her nice letters (by hand). There's more sentimental value in those things so you'll find most women like it more.
ScreamingTrees Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Hell, if they don't like broke guys, I'm screwed six ways to sunday.
FrustratedStandards Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Dude...girls dont give a crap about being poor when your in college because most of them are as well. Youre fine. Youre going to school and your working. Thats something to be proud of. Keep doing your thing. I agree with this 100%. You are getting up on your feet and everyone is poor when they start. Good things will come to you because you are hard working and ambitious. You need not to worry
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