A woman describes herself as attractive. But she can't get attractive men, only ugly men.
Then she gets upset that men only want her for sex. Well, what do you call what you're doing? You obviously want an attractive man for sex!
Oh, and the kicker is, women are always complaining that men don't value their personalities, only their looks. Yet, they won't stoop down to give one "ugly guy" a date, because they value looks over personality.
Bottom line is, if you want to be valued for something inside of you, value other people for what's inside of THEM. The love you take is equal to the love you make.
If yo udon't have their desire in looks, it won't work no matter how nice you are.
It takes the "look" to pull them in and it's the "personality" that decides if it's a keeper or no. Looks first and personality second, no matter what anyone says.
Yup, no matter what, it starts with something superficial. If you don't have your superficial game down, you're starting one step behind everyone else already.
The only people that can break out of this pattern and override their own instincts are people that are either unnaturally wise, or have been hurt enough in their past that they have developed a bias.
A woman describes herself as attractive. But she can't get attractive men, only ugly men.
Then she gets upset that men only want her for sex. Well, what do you call what you're doing? You obviously want an attractive man for sex!
Oh, and the kicker is, women are always complaining that men don't value their personalities, only their looks. Yet, they won't stoop down to give one "ugly guy" a date, because they value looks over personality.
Bottom line is, if you want to be valued for something inside of you, value other people for what's inside of THEM. The love you take is equal to the love you make.
Both men and women are visual animals and both genders gravitate towards people they find physically attracive. These issues are simply not as gender specific as some people like to pretend.
Your post implies that women are shallow for not giving ugly guys a chance - how about all those good looking guys giving fat, ugly women a chance. How do they know those women aren't wonderful, loving human beings that have more to offer than just their dress size?
Oh, and the kicker is, women are always complaining that men don't value their personalities, only their looks. Yet, they won't stoop down to give one "ugly guy" a date, because they value looks over personality.
If a morbidly obese woman with a deformed face asked you out, would you date her and consider a long-term serious relationship because she seems like a nice person?
I'm just pointing out the illogical fallacy that these women feel. They say one thing, and do another.
If they're just visual creatures, then just SAY THAT. Don't go on stating that you value personality over looks, and that men are more shallow, and then go after the good looking bad boys. Don't be a hypocrite.
Instead of whining, why dont you ugly men give ugly women a chance?
For the record, I find the good looking girls out of my league, so I don't go after them.
But even the ugly girls have unrealistic standards. They all expect Mr. Prince Charming, who looks like Brad Pitt.
I would date a chubby, average looking girl with glasses, if she liked me. I am a chubby, average looking guy, so I would be a hypocrite if I didn't date them. However, my experience is that women have unrealistic standards.
I'm just pointing out the illogical fallacy that these women feel. They say one thing, and do another.
If they're just visual creatures, then just SAY THAT. Don't go on stating that you value personality over looks, and that men are more shallow, and then go after the good looking bad boys. Don't be a hypocrite.
No, they don't say one thing and do another.
Saying you value personality over looks does not imply that you believe looks are utterly irrelevant.
I would never date someone I wasn't attracted to at all. It wouldn't be fair to them and it'd be a waste of time.
And, no, I don't date "good-looking bad boys," either because their personalities are a gigantic turn-off (see that? it's the personality trumps looks bit), and I don't enjoy constant drama and disrespect.
I love it how all of these guys who haven't had sex or a serious girlfriend can give all sorts of advice on how women think. If you want to talk about illogical fallacies, just look at all of the BS you've been spouting on LS since you started.
I'm just pointing out the illogical fallacy that these women feel. They say one thing, and do another.
If they're just visual creatures, then just SAY THAT. Don't go on stating that you value personality over looks, and that men are more shallow, and then go after the good looking bad boys. Don't be a hypocrite.
You are making a huge leap by insinuating that just because a woman might want to be with a good looking guy that she really wants a jerk. I've had relationships with handsome men who also happened to be genuinely good people and who didn't make a point of advertising to the world that they were "nice guys".
Moreover, what is deemed attractive is very often in the eye of the beholder. What a white male in his 20's finds attractive in a woman is very different from what a Hispanic male in the same age group would find attractive.
What I keep seeing in these threads are men who are angry that beautiful women don't want them - and that somehow they should be forced or guilted into being with men they are not attracted to.
I'll use myself as an example: I'm slim, I exercise, I love to walk, and watch what I eat – I am not nor have I ever been attracted to overweight men. If you want to call me shallow go ahead, but I could not be happy with someone whose lifestyle is so different then mine and who does not share my belief in the importance of living a healthy, physically active life.
By the way, why didn't you address my comment about handsome men and ugly, fat women?
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