Soul Bear Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Has alcohol made sex better for you, or worse? Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Depends on if the guy was drunk as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Thaddeus Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Drink, sir, is a great provoker of three things . . . nose-painting, sleep, and urine. Lechery, sir, it provokes, and unprovokes; it provokes the desire, but it takes away the performance. William Shakespeare Macbeth 2. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
silverfish Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 It tends to make it worse physically. I think drinking can be good as an ice breaker and its good for flirting but when it comes down to the business its really difficult to connect when you are drunk. Also men arent great performance wise when drink. Apart from the obvious brewers droop issue it tends to be be more of the moment. Its nice when someone wants you that much but if they are **** faced it takes the shine off really. You could be anyone and it wouldnt matter Link to post Share on other sites
Author Soul Bear Posted August 17, 2009 Author Share Posted August 17, 2009 Its nice when someone wants you that much but if they are **** faced it takes the shine off really. You could be anyone and it wouldnt matter I meant as a general rule - aimed at LTR's too! Link to post Share on other sites
silverfish Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 If I'd seen the Shakespeare quote I wouldn't have even commented Heres some more Alcohol may be man's worst enemy, but the bible says love your enemy. Frank Sinatra Lady Astor: Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink. Winston Churchill: Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it. Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder. Anonymous Link to post Share on other sites
silverfish Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 In an LTR it made it worse in every way. I don't think my experience is average though. I was unlucky in my choice of man Link to post Share on other sites
Author Soul Bear Posted August 17, 2009 Author Share Posted August 17, 2009 Lady Astor: Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink. Winston Churchill: Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it. That is such a brilliant quote, and has always been a favorite. My other favorite was a friend who exclaimed 'That baby's making me hungry'... Link to post Share on other sites
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 I've only ever used the alcohol + sex combo within a relationship - no ONS's. And I can only think of ONE time that it made things funner. I was freaking drunk off my ass on vodka and he was stone-cold-sober. LOL It was fun. Link to post Share on other sites
loveslife Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 It can be fun but it can also make it impossible to really connect with the other person, as somone else said. For me, the only time it really helps make things better is at the beginning of a R if I'm nervous. But even then, too many nerves mixed with too much alcohol can be a real mess. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 alcohol = no sex in my case.. I can't stand people who get drunk.... eewwww... they gross me out Link to post Share on other sites
Gemini09 Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Has alcohol made sex better for you, or worse? I suppose if you had a drink before sex, it would be helpful in relaxing, if you are tense about things. Too much alcohol would not be a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 OP, if you are asking either you are no old enough to drink or you just need to get out more It could make it better, some women relax more, feel less inhibitive, more daring... some are easier to get laid with alci... some just don't drink , so alci would screw up the night.. Link to post Share on other sites
wiko Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 If you're too drunk to pass a sobriety test, the sex is only so so. If you're JUST below that, the kinky in me comes out and it's a blast (for us both). Link to post Share on other sites
Charles1978 Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 It makes it worse for me, but not for her. She has said she is less likely to get off when she has been drinking, but she gets off 99% of the time from sex anyway, so it doesn't bother her. Definitely a lot kinkier when we've been drinking, but it makes me last forever... and believe it or not, I do not see that as a good thing. Kinda defeats the whole purpose. And since we have sex just about everyday, I find myself passing on alcohol... even something like a glass of wine during dinner. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 I think it depends on HOW much really, also how new the sexual relationship is. Obviously someone trashed is not going to be much fun in bed. Plus with some guys, they have ummm issues performing when drinking. For me, I tend to be less reserved and more open. I'm shy about my body, and when first sleeping with someone, I'm a little nervous. Link to post Share on other sites
girl68 Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Better! It's just like sex on drugs (mostly marijuana and GHB and 'shrooms). Physically sometimes it is a little sloppy, but overall it's fun! Depends on your partner though. My bf and I drink and do some drugs together so we are both the same and even if we have a sex blooper we are having enough fun we can just have a laugh and get on with the show. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Soul Bear Posted August 17, 2009 Author Share Posted August 17, 2009 OP, if you are asking either you are no old enough to drink or you just need to get out more . :lmao: I am well over the legal age for drinking my friend. I'm also Scottish.... I'm just curious as to what peoples views are. Maybe I do need to get out more... I have had some great sex whilst drunk and performed , and I have had some really bad and embarrasing sex whilst drunk. I used to take drugs, and i have had some AMAZING sex on drugs.... I only asked this question as I got a txt from a girl asking for red wine and sex........ Link to post Share on other sites
New Again Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Makes it louder Link to post Share on other sites
New Again Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 :lmao: I am well over the legal age for drinking my friend. I'm also Scottish.... I'm just curious as to what peoples views are. Maybe I do need to get out more... I have had some great sex whilst drunk and performed , and I have had some really bad and embarrasing sex whilst drunk. I used to take drugs, and i have had some AMAZING sex on drugs.... I only asked this question as I got a txt from a girl asking for red wine and sex........ Well everyone knows red wine is a panty dropper Link to post Share on other sites
joseffrost Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 I used to take drugs, and i have had some AMAZING sex on drugs.... To paraphrase Hunter S Thompson, I'd never advocate sex on drugs or alcohol to anyone, but it's always worked for me. NOTE: I'd like to point out that I no longer abuse substances. Apart from Guinness and Spanish red wine. Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Yes and no. Obviously too drunk and not much happens lol My ex-wife seemed to have a LOT more fun with a few in her, she was able to relax and enjoy the moment. I've had both the times when either I was barely able to perform or the times when i was like the Energizer bunny.. just kept going and going.. LOL As I've gotten a little older the alcohol tends to slow me down a little more that it used to. Makes it louder and that too. Link to post Share on other sites
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