ConstantlyBlake Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 I lost a "so called friend", who introduced me to my true soul mate. Recognition of myself in them is how I concluded my find, search and long-term commitment in looking to see, feel, be as I am with this mate, my soul longed for was at a perfect halt. 15 years of friendship was lost due to hatred, jealousy and her envies ways. I ignored the red flags as most people would when searching for love. It finally clicked after exhaling from a long journey searching for the "Right One". Should one lose to find a wonderful prize? Why when love is found, bonds unfold which you also uphold in the same respective way as finding your perfect mate? To feel in sync and feel at ease with a best friend who helped find my true mate; it really hurts to find that her own desires were the only inquires she had in mind when planting my union. Betrayal is not even the word to describe this action that was done upon me especially by someone who knew how broken and bruised my heartbeat was. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted November 18, 2014 Share Posted November 18, 2014 Are you saying the exfriend is a girl who is now jealous because you started dating a girl she introduced you to? Link to post Share on other sites
MCGar Posted November 18, 2014 Share Posted November 18, 2014 I lost a "so called friend", who introduced me to my true soul mate. Recognition of myself in them is how I concluded my find, search and long-term commitment in looking to see, feel, be as I am with this mate, my soul longed for was at a perfect halt. 15 years of friendship was lost due to hatred, jealousy and her envies ways. I ignored the red flags as most people would when searching for love. It finally clicked after exhaling from a long journey searching for the "Right One". Should one lose to find a wonderful prize? Why when love is found, bonds unfold which you also uphold in the same respective way as finding your perfect mate? To feel in sync and feel at ease with a best friend who helped find my true mate; it really hurts to find that her own desires were the only inquires she had in mind when planting my union. Betrayal is not even the word to describe this action that was done upon me especially by someone who knew how broken and bruised my heartbeat was. My apologies, but I find this post to be very convoluted. It looks like you are trying to communicate in the manner of prose but it really is a very inefficient way to converse with us. Is this a vent? Are you seeking advice? Do you want sympathy or constructive criticism? Before you submit your post, read your writing aloud and see if it lends itself to easy understand or if you find yourself confused too. From my own observation, if you communicate this way with your friend then there really is no surprise why you are no longer friends. If friends have difficulties, easy communication is needed if there is any chance of reconciling. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConstantlyBlake Posted November 19, 2014 Author Share Posted November 19, 2014 I am not attempting to confuse others. bottom Line I knew her 4 15 yrs (so called best friend) she has always been jealous of me but I always made her feel at ease. Her reasons for hooking me up with my soon to be husband so she can continue borrowing money. When he put a stop to it and she was convinced I did she started bad mouthing me. Knowing my sweetheart had a past of girls abusing him financially. I went from great girl to be careful she is just like your ex. I had to let her go. Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 Thats easier. Sorry but that is not a friend... She has used to as well as your other half... Better off cutting ties. Too much drama... Can't be doing with it. Keep life simple and you will be happier. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ConstantlyBlake Posted November 24, 2014 Author Share Posted November 24, 2014 the hardest thing in life is realizing that you had a friend who in reality was jealousy, envies and just for themselves. When you see the signs of sadness when others would boosr about me I would change subject or even put myself down and speak on their accomplishments. That is what a friend does. A friend doesnt hate or get upset and find ways to discredit you. Friendships are hard to find and when you find a true friend never let go because I truly believe "friends" doesnt exist anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
MillyZon4 Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 Your post is quite similar to my last post! I am pondering how to move forward after being introduced to my fiance by a very good friend who now is treating me differently and very easily offended/jealous despite my attempts to keep our friendship strong. I am getting so tired of it. I'm sorry you went through this too. Link to post Share on other sites
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