What kinds of friends are they?

[yue.ayase]

1, Always like to have fun, and regret consequences after. Liked by others because of how talkative and cool she is. Likes to be the spotlight. When she is in a fight, she would say mean things so mean that you think you won't be friends with her anymore. Never apologize to anything, no matter if it's her fault or not. But once calm down, she will pretend nothing had happen and be normal again. Yet, she would bring it up again in another fight. She is very emotional. All of a sudden she would get so down and wouldn't speak. She expect people to ask her what's wrong but will never tell them.

 

 

2, Always doing the right thing. Scared of getting into trouble and rarely participate in anything. Doesn't join in but expect people to be good friends with her. Always in a rush and always tell people to hurry up and pressure them. When she is in a fight, she would get so angry and might yell at people. But after a while, she would calm down and apologize for what she did. Always keep things in her mind, but show that she is unhappy. And get upset if no one ask and feel like no one cares.

[Cafe au lait]

First "friend" sounds like a selfish social butterfly who tends to act without thinking and say rash things. Selfish because she likes to be the center of attention and baits people into asking her what's wrong without telling them. Also very proud and thinks she's better than other people, evidenced by her never apologizing.

 

Second "friend" seems unhappy- tense and stressed out, sometimes taking it out on other people. However, she recognizes that is wrong and takes responsibility for it whens he apologizes. Desperately wants to feel cared for by other people.

 

Notice I put "friend" in quotation marks. You didn't provide a particularly flattering description of either one of them. Are you sure they are your friends?

 

We all have our flaws, but if those negative qualities overshadow their positive qualities...perhaps reconsider their friendship?