Brees0900 Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 i met this girl at a community college 2 years ago. She seems like nice and outgoing. We use to chill with each other at school before i transfer, and we use to talk alot on Facebook. I use to help with her work on Facebook. I use to give her notes for classes since we took the same music class although we went to different colleges at the time. I use help her with her online work. Now she has a boyfriend. She calls me annoying when i tried to talk to her online and she barely write me back. I ask for her number so that i can keep in touch with her. I do that will everybody. I think to maintain a friendship, you gotta keep in touch. I ask for her number, she told me to give her my number first, so i did. I ask for it again, she got offline fast once i ask her again. I have never heard from her since. Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted April 13, 2012 Share Posted April 13, 2012 Sounds like she wanted a friend she could use. Once you were no longer useful, she had no need for you any more. My daughter had the same problem, and I told her, this year, to hold back on offering to help people she meets; let someone ELSE help them at first. Then, if that friend sticks around, she is interested in YOU, not what you can do for her. Link to post Share on other sites
callmegee Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 You think of her as a friend only. But are you sure she's never had more feelings for you, like a secret crush? Odd reaction from her - looks like she read your kind gestures as romantic interest and now that she's in a relationship, she's gone nasty. Well.... too late for you to find out now. She's with someone else already. Link to post Share on other sites
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