1bee Posted December 16, 2008 Share Posted December 16, 2008 um! i traveled all the way to nebraska this thanksgiving to cook thanksgiving dinner for a friend that is stationed there. it's not like i had anything else to do and i don't have a boyfriend. i've been depressed for the past year and needed something to look forward to around the holidays. i thought it would be a nice, friendly gesture which i suggested to him back in august and he agreed to. okay. so thanksgiving dinner was awesome. the turkey and stuffed mushrooms i made totally rocked. so i come home and he hasn't talked to me since. it's not like i went there in hopes for a relationship. i went as a friend. a FRIEND. that's all. i sent him a few meaningless messages over myspace just to start a conversation, shoot the crap and all. then i sent him a few texts. this was all done over the course of the month and not consecutively. i'm pretty bummed! i guess he got the wrong idea and was freaked out by me making dinner for him? also, i did kind of like him, but i didn't say anything that would insinuate it. i mean, i specifically remember having a conversation with him saying that I was through with dating for quite a while and i haven't met anyone that excited me the same way, which is a lie. i don't know which is worse. the loss of a friend or the fact that he was turned off enough by me to stop being my friend. crap. i'm a mess. i'm so depressed. Link to post Share on other sites
IfWishesWereHorses Posted December 16, 2008 Share Posted December 16, 2008 UMMM.. maybe he took you at your word??? Maybe he was disappointed?? Link to post Share on other sites
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