whoiswhatwhenwhere Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 (edited) Haters gonna hate. You can't please everyone. There are just some ****ty people in this world that you won't get a long with, that have their own problems and their own issues. You're not going to get along with everyone. Some people are just dumb. It's not your fault if people do stupid **** to you. It's only your fault if you let it get to you. People are going to do stupid **** all your/their life and there's nothing you can do about it. Trying to please everyone will only exhaust you more and make you hate yourself even more. You can learn to start loving yourself because that's what you need right now. You need a little love. That sounded corny. Nothing you say or do will make you love yourself more. There's more to it than that. There's a fear everytime you want to be yourself and when you try not to worry about what others think of you. You're worried those people can hurt you, that they can have an effect on you. They can't. You want to please everyone because you want everyone to like you because that was the only way out of not feeling liked by the people who mattered most? You felt as though if everyone else liked you then the things that were said to you by the people who were supposed to like you the most wouldn't be right. You're constantly proving your parents wrong by showing them that you're not the dislikeable scumbag they said you were. It's exhausting trying to make everybody like you, though. You're afraid to show who you really are because you're afraid that people won't like you and then it'll prove your deepest dark fears correct. You're afraid. You're so afraid that you're not even afraid anymore, you're just numb. How do you start not caring about what others think of you? Edited July 7, 2014 by whoiswhatwhenwhere Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 You can't make everybody like you. You have to like yourself & then surround yourself with people who hold similar values. If your parents actually told you that you were a "dislikeable scumbag" you may need some therapy to re-boost your damaged self esteem. Link to post Share on other sites
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