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I'm not ugly so why do I have a hard time getting a man/keeping one?

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Old 24th September 2017, 7:37 AM   #16
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Originally Posted by Eternal Sunshine View Post
It wasn't until I watched a video of myself that I realized I had a resting b*itch face
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Old 24th September 2017, 7:46 AM   #17
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So I will say as pointed out you need to start
dating different types of men

I can overlook a lot of things in a woman.
I can find a woman attractive whether
she wears a 32 A bra or 36 D.

I would prefer a woman to be shorter than
me but could be with a woman my height
or even a taller one.

Thing is I can not overlook and ignore that
a woman is overweight. This is something
that you can work on.

Also I find the longer the hair a woman's
attractiveness increases.

So eat healthy, exercise, skip the barber.
Then go after a new type of man.
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Old 24th September 2017, 12:13 PM   #18
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Originally Posted by road View Post
I have RBF, too.

It's when your natural face in repose looks angry, sullen.
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Old 26th September 2017, 12:11 PM   #19
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My first thought was to work on your self esteem and what a healthy relationship looks like. I personally found Natalie Lue's blog called baggage Reclaim very helpful for learning this.

My suspicion it's between your lack of self esteem (which makes you come across as a doormat who can be toyed with) and the types of men you're choosing.

For attractiveness, there's a lid for every pot. Funny thing is I probably got more men when I was a little heavier than when I was really skinny. I believe attitude and being approachable are huge in attracting men.
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